Im about to commit suicide..wat do you think?

Question

im tired of haivng problems and worries,.....and for those people around me that kept on judging me

Answer 1

suicide is for losers. and for selfish people.

sorry to be so tough but really now, somewhere in the far corners of the world, someone is gasping his last breath, wondering why his life has to be sacrificed for the stupid, fake bravado of the worlds' leaders, and here you are, given every chance to wake up to each new day yet you prefer to be rotting away in some wooden casket.

come on, you are much better than that. we all have problems and worries. i would love to meet a person who doesn't have any. like really, i would because then i would have the pleasure of telling that person how his/her life was lived in vain because s/he never had to sweat it out, unlike the rest of us.

as for those people who keep on judging you, well screw them. if you take your life just because of that, well you just gave them all the more reason to judge you as they have because you can't stand up to them. and it's not really about what they say about you. it's about how you perceive your own self. if you recognize your own self worth, irregardless of what they think of you, then you wouldn't even be asking your yahoo question in the first place.

life is tough. outlast it and you'll see that you can be tougher.

Answer 2

I hope you are not asking this question as some sort of joke. There are too many people who have mental illnesses and do commit suicide. The whole subject of depression, sadness and taking one's own life is NOTHING to joke about.

If you are serious (and I've answered a few questions like this here on Yahoo Q&A), please DON'T DO IT!! Everyone has problems and worries. Sometimes those problems and worries can go on for week, months or even years - mine certainly have. But nothing lasts forever. You WILL solve your problems and be able to handle your worries.

Talk to a friend, family member, doctor, therapist or psychologist (or all of the above) about how you feel.

Answer 3

I know that things can get really tough sometimes. I have been depressed for years. I finally sought help in my family doctor. You might be like I am and have one of these chemical imbalances. You need to get some medication and talk to a counselor. It really helps to find someone that you can talk to that won't judge you. And if you do get on medication and it don't seem that the meds are not working, tell your doctor and get it changed and keep changing until you get the appropriate dosage or combination. But talk about your problems, that is very important. Take care!

Answer 4

Toughen up, this life throws us sour lemons, those that can make lemonade will learn and grow and be happier.

Suicide is the easy way out until you reach the other side (heaven) Then it will not be so pleasant. You will sit in darkness with many souls who cry and wail. You just sit there with no joy waiting to be born again and try it all over again. You will keep coming back until you learn from the hardships, pain and sorrow.

Why not learn now and spare yourself the darkness. Do you know we all make our own worries and problems and it is all negative energy. Block out those that judge you as only you and God can judge yourself. Dont be so hard on yourself. Life is roughest when you are young and very old but inbetween it can be joyous.

I was desperate too when I was a teen. I felt worthless and felt like no one loved me. I was desperately looking for love and everytime it passed me by I wanted to die.
Thank God I never followed through. I have a wonderful life with a wonderful man and two loving kids. I have been happy and prosperous and enjoy life every day. What if I would have bailed out? I would have missed the love and joy. My kids would never have been born (they are very happy too) and my husband would have been lonely since God told him I was his soul mate.

Even when things look there darkest there is still HOPE. And you can find it. Do you want to know what changed me? What made me want to live?
I grew up but I also decided I wanted to change my life, change it for the better and that I was prepared to do what ever it took to change. I took a good look at myself (and wrote down changes I needed to make) and my life (wrote down changes in my life that had to be looked at). Then I started small with one change a week. The end result was a NEW ME, happy, outgoing and energetic.
I no longer wished to die. I wished to live, maybe to 100.
Anyone can change. You can fix problems just write them down and write down what can fix it. Then work toward the goal one at a time. When you see it in writing it connects with the brain.

Suicide is not the answer. You can destroy others who love and care for you. Dont let worries, fears, and problems get to BIG. Tackle them while they are small. Prayer works too.

Let your soul learn in this lifetime. You will be much happier in life and in death. Good Luck and Remember, your Life is Valuable.

Answer 5

Change. Obviously, you have a need to change, right? Find the things you don't like, and see what you can do to change those things. Work on that and gain positive thoughts from it. See how you can make your life better and use that as a challenge. Do you like a challenge? I do. This gives me more reason to live and fight for what I know is to be good for me. Leave the pity party and change that attitude into a positive one. Focus on something positive and stay focused on it. Once you've achieved what you've fought for, you'll feel GOOD, not miserable. Stick to it. Imagine that spouse that you haven't met yet? Don't want to miss out on that. And that career or education you always wanted? Now you can work for that and be happy as a result, because you can do it. Focus is the key.

Answer 6

I have had lots of problems after my parents died, some that I thought I could never cope with, but no matter how bad it gets, usually there is a way to resolve everything! There has been a couple times or more in my life when I just said, God, you take over, I don't have the answers or solutions, and I'm just tired of coping, please do something!!! Honestly, within 48 hours every time, God answered my prayers, and I'M not one of those super religious people either! I don't go to church, but I do believe in God, and if you ask for help, in someway he will answer you. We like to feel that we are in control of every situation, but at times we feel we have lost control, and everything is falling down around us. Don't despair, things WILL get better, please believe me! Have faith, and even the darkest situations will eventually shed some light. Take care.

Answer 7

Please don't..we all have problems some more than others-I am mentally ill(Bi-Polar) and I am suicidal once in a while but I am also medicated, are you? Please see a doctor or call 911 they will help you. There is hope even for us misfits.Do not give a crap about what people are saying or judging you about,they are the most heinous ones alive,they live for others misery.I am not christian but I do pray to the Lord and the Lady (Wicca) Not evil witchcraft and I will pray for comfort and peace for you. Good Luck and do not do it!!

Answer 8

wow.so many people think that taking the easy way out is gonna solve all our problems. well what if it doesnt, what if by some cosmic chance that you do kill yourself, what if you are stuck in limbo because you didnt solve your problems and youll be forever searching for the answer. isnt it better now to remove the things that are toxic to our lives. look. i have shycological problems too. and trust me its been like liv ing in hell. it sounds to me that you are depressed and the only people that probably try to kill themselves are the ones with the million mile an hour thoughts running through your head. look. do me a favor ok. go to the drug store or vitamin store and buy a bottle of st johns wort. it will save you a whole lot of money because you will have a quieter mind. youll finally beable to think of one thought at a time which for me was enough to make me happy no matter how bad my life sucks. start with one pill first thing in the morn for three days. if you dont feel anything go to 2 a day in the morn. thats what did it for me. now my mind is clear enough to point myself in the right direction. im calmer, less anxiety, and sleeping through the night. start with getting mental stability. when you do that, and when you feel better but you are still uncertain on where to to from there, e-maiol me and ill try to my best to guide you to a better understanding of life. dont give up. give this a try and feel free to tell me your problems and worries via e-mail. trust me ive been there and ive found ways to get past the misery. i have finally found control of an out of control mind. you can too. my e-mail address is [e-mail] and just for the record, if anyone else out there is having problems, REAL problems, then feel free to email me as well. im here for you. at least you have someone willing to help. i had to learn it all by myself.oh and by the way, you probably should look into financial aid if you are hard up for money because you may need more than st johns wort can give you.although it works pretty damn good for me. whether it getting therapy from me or from a real counselor , i strongly advise you look into it .i did. i had too.

Answer 9

Do you live in Iraq, Somalia, Haiti or Darfur? You don't have problems you are spoiled and weak. Get some help and try to think about the people you will hurt. Winners never quit, quitters never win.

Answer 10

everyone has problems....but its how you deal with those problems that make you who you are. you can be weak and let those problems push you down, or you can keep taking hit after hit and just push through. people will never stop judging....its human nature. you can just ignore it, or you can let it bother you, which you seem to be doing. they are just people and keep in mind that they all have problems like you have. suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. think about that when you are about to kill yourself.