I'm not out at the Frat House were I live. I asked this Guy, who I had been talking to at the bar, for his number. He wouldn't give it to me unless I gave him mine. We talked for awhile and I told him why I couldn't give my number out, but he said he wouldn't give his out without me giving him mine. No numbers were exchanged and I'll probably never see him again. How should I handle this in the future?
2006-10-30 13:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I didn't want to give my number out because I've never given it out to another Gay man yet and am afraid someone at the Frat might get suspicious. I told him I would give him my cell phone number but he said he wanted both and I said no.
2006-10-30 13:16:28 · update #1
Next time give him your cell number and tell him you nobody answers the land line. That way only you will get the call and nobody will know anything aboit it all
2006-10-30 15:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you offer to give your cell-phone number, explain why you can't give the other, and act exceedingly nice about all of this, then I think you did everything right. Forget him!
Although, in the future, I'd give out your cell-phone number pretending it was your regular number. A lot of people nowadays don't even have "real phones"- they just use their cell phones.
By the way, why would you be frightened for him to call the frat house? Couldn't you just say he was a friend you met and wanted to hang out with?
2006-10-30 14:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell him why you were uncomfortable giving your number out? If you live at the fraternity and it just has the house phone line or if you have a line in your room but have a roommate, just tell him that and that your fraternity brothers don't know that you like guys. Don't you have a cell phone? If not, consider getting one if you can afford to do so. If you really liked this guy, go to the same bar on the same day this next weekend and maybe you'll see him again. If not, maybe you'll meet someone you like just as much.
2006-10-30 13:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy. Just give your mobile number out. End of. If you don't like the guy after a few texts or chats on the phone then just cut him off by not replying to messages or answering calls. He'll get the message eventually!
If, however, he wants your home phone number too, just tell him he can only have your mobile as that's all he needs.
2006-10-30 14:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by ©Wayne© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have a cell phone. Then you can give him that number and not the community number to your frat house.
2006-10-31 00:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frat -
You don't have to do anything you don't want to.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.
* Unsure of the guy give him your email address. (It buys you time)
* Give him/ get a cell phone. (texts impersonal, yet effective)
* Block your cell number with a *87 and call him. (let him work for your number)
Any combination of the above are great. You don't want to seem to available.
- Jude
2006-10-30 14:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jude M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a cell phone, or
Stop worrying what other people might think and just give him your damn number. People are going to find out eventually, so you might as well get it over with and know who's on your side and who's not.
2006-10-30 14:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this individual asked you for both numbers and refused to only get one. Then this person didn't trust you, you did the right thing to say why you refused to give the other number. This person you met was unreasonable. If this happens again, make sure this person understands you, if they don't. Don't even bother
2006-10-31 05:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by dark&pure? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The universe is giving you a subtle hint that you are not in an environment, or mind space at this point in time that is conducive to fostering a romantic relationship with any one man. You need not worry. You are not obliged to take any action. Be patient. Your time will come....
2006-10-30 14:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are able to desire to tell the mum. in basic terms using fact the babies say they are allowed to do some thing, would not propose they are! it incredibly is unfavorable for an 11 year previous new child to be uncovered to pornography and you have a accountability to hold it to their mom and dad' interest. If the mum does enable them to observe porn (which I exceedingly doubt) then you definitely could desire to touch the police and record this.
2016-10-21 00:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by montesi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋