2006-10-30 12:41:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't help who you fall in love with, what you can make sure of is not ruining a marriage.
2006-10-30 12:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~frankie~*~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a very ummm, difficult question. Why? Because I fell in love with a married man and I, too, was married. We both had tried to make our marriages work countless times and couldn't. It all started out innocently--friends who could talk to each other when our spouses didn't want anything to do with us. It developed into love--we ended up leaving our significant others and after divorces were finalized got married to each other. After 9 years we are still happily married. I don't think you can chose who to fall in love with, but sometimes you fall in love with someone who is going through the exact same thing you are and I feel they are somehow sent to rescue you and themselves at the same time.
2006-10-30 20:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jane B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. Lets see.. I was in the same situation. I dont think it was love.. it was just an attraction that someone had for me .. that I never had before.. so I got attached easily. I would say that its not ok to fall in love with a married man. Does he have feelings for you??? How do you know this guy?
2006-10-30 20:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love with a married man happens. Just don't do anything about it except get counseling to learn how to fall in love with more appropriate men.
Look but don't talk to, touch, or contact him.
2006-10-30 20:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a sow that has been to the stable a couple of times it is not worth the pain, and trouble. a mistress has no fringe benifits, no christmas, no new year, no thanksgiveing just a roll in the hey every now and then when he is mad at his wifeee. back off it is so much easier to get your own man then to chase after a man that just want to have a little fun on the side line
2006-10-30 20:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by mishoney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it most certainly is not. How would you feel about being the other woman.It has happened to me. I had this scrag go after my husband and believe me it is not a nice feeling. Thank god after some time he came to his senses and realised that everything l said about her was true , she was just a fat, lonely, ugly old scrubber who no-one else wanted. I really hope she reads this.In case she does her name was jules.We are very happy and very much in love now but for awhile there we had our problems.Do you really want someone saying those things about you. Wake up to yourself you will be the loser in the end. Trust me.
2006-10-30 21:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why take someone elses husband, do u know the amount of pain and suffering it causes to have your marriage destroyed, and your entire life turned upside down, because someone fell in love with your husband. and persued him with a vengance.one day if u end up marrying this man, and do get lucky and cause him to leave the wife,remember what goes around comes around, and it could be you in her shoes. sometimes in life we get back exacly what we have done to other's in the same way so we know how it feels.
2006-10-30 21:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and "hell no". It's not alright. It can happen, but you should do your best to not let it happen to you! Don't go breaking into someone elses relationship, even if one of the parties are tempting you. If you do, it will all come back on you tenfold down the road, sooner or later. It's the "Law of Reciprocity".
2006-10-30 20:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never good to fall in love with anyone who you are not married to.
2006-10-30 20:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are setting yourself up for heartbreak, and you deserve a better life. Why take someone's life for your own selfish needs? If it was meant to be with you and this married man, it willhappen in time, but you should wait until they are divorced. I think it's cowardly and pathetic. You are not wanted and you don't belong.
2006-10-30 20:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋