She always touches me in a way that i don't like to be touched. I tell her to stop, but she never does, she just keeps touching me. How do i tell her to stop without hurting her feelings? and yes i think she likes me too, i'm not the only one who thinks that...please i need advice! and fast!
2006-10-30 12:36:22 · 21 answers · asked by Christina B 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It will be hard without hurting her feelings but you have to stop her before she goes too far. If it was a guy you wouldn't stand for it, would you? You might tell him that you like him but not in that way and if he didn't get the message then you might have to stop being friends with him. It's exactly the same in this case. She may be a girl and your friend but she has no right to make you feel uncomfortable.
2006-10-30 12:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by merihell75 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, you can either stop being around her or stay her friend, and the touching continues. She is determined to get you in bed with her. Either you are enjoying the advances, or make the decision you need to make and stop seeing her so you can stop whining about it.
2006-10-30 12:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her flat out that you don't want her to touch you, and that she is jeopardizing your friendship by continuing to do so.
Gay or straight is beside the point - if a person cares about you, they respect your boundaries.
2006-10-30 12:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Chickyn in a Handbasket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really offended, tell her seriously. Like, sit down & tell her. If she doesn't listen, you need to stop hanging out with her. She is overstepping her bounderies and she has no right to make you uncomfortable.
2006-10-30 12:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by IMHO 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell her the next time she touches you inappropriate you are going to slap her. just because she is gay doesnt mean she should take advantage of you. you have rights too.
2006-10-30 13:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by jackttu1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable and if she doesn't respect what you ask of her then you aren't going to have her in your life anymore...you need to set boundries even if it hurts her feelings. She'll get over it.
2006-10-30 12:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be firm with her. Seeing how you have already told her but she continues to do this.. she doesnt care if it upsets you... so dont worry about up setting her by telling her to knock it off. Gay or straight.. no means no!
2006-10-30 12:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by grapelady911 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have a few drinks that then see how the touching feels. If you still don't like it then you can be drunk enough to tell her how you feel and then you can blame it on the drinks. You can also blame it on the drinks if you like it. Win Win
2006-10-30 12:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rod is the coolest guy I know 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
okay just tell her litsen i ma not gay im straight and i just dont feel right wiht you touching me that way so plz stop
2006-10-30 12:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by Shawlda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want her touching you,and you have told her and she still does it then knock the hell out of her!
2006-10-30 12:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋