Ok, I am a very openminded person, and I dont have issues with any person bc of race, sexuality, relegion or other issues in this society. However, there is this gay guy in my class who sits next to me. Everytime I we have a conversation he is staring directly at my chest. I am wondering ok.... that kind of gets aggravating after a while. If he is not staring at my chest, he is looking at my legs or or my thighs when I wear shorts. I am a 110% that he is gay bc we have talked about his bf and I have even seen him. What is up with that? I know most people are gonna say he is bi, but he makes it clear that he is fully gay. ANy suggestions?
2006-10-30 12:29:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
he is twenty one, so i think that he is pretty sure about his sexuality.
2006-10-30 15:42:05 · update #1
thats a little odd maybe he regrets his decision lol next time he is lookin in that direction say hey buddy my eyes r up here lol
2006-10-30 12:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rae M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i won't question weather he is gay bi or what ever
but some guys do act gay
just to see if a girl will let her guard down
mainly if they are bi
guys gay or not are all different
but most are still turned on by girls even if they won't admit it
be all are turned on in different ways he might like boobs legs and female bodies yet just has not tried it yet so
maybe when he looks at you he really is just
wondering weather he is bi or straight
being gay once twice three thousand times dose not mean he won't still like to be with a girl mainly if he has not done it with a girl before
2006-10-30 20:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are beautiful, and all men, I believe like to look at beautiful women whether the man is str8 or Gay. I'm not attracted to women but I do look at them, weird I know, can't explain it. Maybe you should were clothing that doesn't expose as much skin if it bothers you.
2006-10-30 20:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of my gay guy friends are fascinated with b00bs. Also, gay men can appreciate the body of the opposite sex. Just like I can appreciate guys with great bodies. If he not being obnoxious about his staring, I would take it as a compliment.
2006-10-30 20:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is either wishing he was bi or he likes the way u look and wishes he could look as u do this is from a bi guys opinion for what thats worth
2006-10-30 20:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by eeknogeek 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would tend to think its a lack of self confidence. any body that cannot look you in the eye during a conversation is not confident. i could very easily be missing something here. my job is sales. if I'm looking at a customers ti*s do you think I'm going to get the sale. no I'm not. i truthfully believe that the young man needs to mature. next time slap him and say " respect me bitc*) and look me in the eyes.
2006-10-30 20:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by shyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a compliment---being gay doesn't make one blind to good looks/attributes in the opposite sex!
2006-10-30 20:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your pretty babe ...i mean really pretty and have a great bod ...your prob his diva fix for the day ...lots of gay men admire beautiful women ...tell him to stop ime sure hes not knowing hes making you uncomfortable .....your his lust object without the fuss of trying to have sex with you .
2006-10-30 23:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bearable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, tell him to knock it off, it's making you uncomfortable...he could be checking out your clothes. Gay men are very fashion sense...
2006-10-30 20:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenage boys are teenage boys. Sounds like he's pretty normal.
2006-10-30 22:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋