My husband died Dec. 24, 2004 by suicide. We have three young kids together. A few days after he died his mom and brother, 13 at the time, took most of his belongings without permission. Should I ask for some of the meaningful things back? He had 3 paint ball guns, a palm pilot, and some other stuff that meant something to me. I was so mad at my husband for dying and leaving me and our kids that it took me a while to realize that some of that stuff they took had meant something to me or my children. Help me please.
2006-10-30 12:19:45 · 11 answers · asked by pettyfol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Definitely get his stuff back for your children's sake. My Dad died and my mother was left with just my brother and I. She went to all his friends and relatives who had his stuff and got it for me and my brother.
It has meant so much to my brother and I because that's all we have left of him.
My Dad has been gone for over twenty years now and my Mom just went back to the Midwest to find someone who had another belonging of my Dads.My Mom just wanted to have all that we could that was our fathers.
My brother and I are so grateful.We love our Mother so very much for her strong efforts.
Some things might be so small and meaningless, but it means the world to my brother and I because it was our Dad's.
It is all rightfully yours and your children's.You will be very happy you retrieved his belongings,especially in years to come.
God bless your family.Best wishes to all of you!
2006-10-30 12:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 04:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have every right to get those things back. Shame on his family for taking them w/out permission
2006-10-30 12:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by mmobabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask for the things back if they still have them. Do you have any pictures of him? This may be the best way to remember him!
2006-10-30 12:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husbands property is your property under most common property laws. Unless there is a written will.
You have a right to what was taken, it is theft.
2006-10-30 12:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! For them to enter your home and remove his stuff is wrong. You have first say in what happens to his things not them
2006-10-30 12:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by ~Erios~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the stuff belongs to the kids. they are apart of him. but if you have pictures, that means more than anything
2006-10-30 12:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by its me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are entitled to those things. You are the wife. Sorry to hear about your loss.
2006-10-30 12:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Doodlebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it means something to you take it back.
2006-10-30 12:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by Tridda AKA K.B.J.G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly get it back.
2006-10-30 12:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Redhothumanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋