past few months i have been having attraction for men but i still like this girl at my school!?? i m so confused
2006-10-30 11:53:56 · 14 answers · asked by someone 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
do you have strong STRONG feelings for men too?
2006-10-30 11:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by somethingsovague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check it out man, you either like guys or you don't. But you need to evaluate personally.
First, are you just saying that you can tell when another guy is attractive? Cause when we get out of High School and become comfortable with our and your sexuality, most men can tell you if another guys is attractive. Being attractive is universal. This does not mean your bi or gay.
Second, Are you sexually attracted to other guys? Does the thought of sexual contact with another guy arouse you? Is it because your curious of the unknown and forbidden? This is something else to consider.
Third, If you get aroused by the thought of sexual contact with girls, you are most certainly attracted to them. If you feel exactly the same about the two I would say your Bi. If you feel like your just curious about guys, this is a normal stage that SOME guys go through, though most would never admit it. If your turned on by guys and have just been conditioned to act like your interested in women then you are gay. These are things that you can only tell yourself though.
2006-10-30 20:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to both then you may be bi, but during your school years your hormones fluctuate widley and sometimes attraction to people of the same sex is normal. Just make sure you are comfortable with any decision you are making when it comes to dating and sexual contact, don't do anything you don't want to do and don't let anyone tell you that you are one way or the other. This is a decision you are going to have to make for yourself, no one knows what is in your heart but you.
Blessed be
2006-10-30 19:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by pelenpuppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nononono. Bisexual is more than just haveing a little attraction for your own sex. over 95% of people have had feelings for same sexes at least once in their lives. Just go with the girl, and if doesnt work out with girls, then figure out what u want
2006-10-30 19:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by coolchess123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait first off are you a girl? If so that doesn't make you bi. I mean I don't care who the person is. Everyone has a same sex attraction... so it doesn't really make you bi. It just makes you human honestly. Even if you have sex with someone of the same sex doesn't make you bi either.... it just makes you curious or indeed just once again human.
2006-10-30 20:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Leelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe everyone is bisexual. They supress one side or the other. I'm straight, but I can appreciate a magnificent body.
2006-10-30 19:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like both males and females and you want to sleep and have sexual relations with both males and females then you are a bisexual and should go with it.
2006-10-30 19:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just looking up to them, of comparing yourself to them. you also may possible be bisexual, either way, your normal.
2006-10-30 20:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by ocfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think to deep or you'll drive yourself nuts. Try being with a man and see if you like it...don't stress over this you'll find yourself...
2006-10-30 20:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you get wood for anything on two legs? Then you're a freak and need to see a shrink right away before you turn completely gay.
2006-10-30 19:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by That's a Stupid Question 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋