IF, you had an opportunity to get back at someone that wronged you.?

Question

What would you do? This is just a what IF, unless you've already done it.....then be exact

Answer 1

well now! in what way do you mean exactly? i have played with peoples emotions because they wouldnt leave me alone...other females for example if we liked the same guy or something but that was for fun not for getting back...im not the revenge full type because that shows weakness and proves that the person really got to you in a bad way...move on and leave it alone thats the only way to show self pride

Answer 2

Revenge is best left to the man upstairs as he does such a better job than we can ever do.

Example:

Best friend of 17 yrs...brought him into my company and made him the CEO while I was the COO. After 2 yrs he had stolen almost 80,000 from the company, remodeled his house with the money, put up a gf in a hotel at times and had parties...behind my and his wife's back. The list goes on and on.

Well when I saw it all it was too late and the company collapsed. I wanted to ring his neck with my own two hands and see the wind leave him but I choose to be the bigger man.

Well within 1 yr...the man upstairs did his bidding....

Friend lost his wife....his 2 sons....his main house...his rental house....hit fast Camaro....his other 2 cars.....his job w/ me....his new job.....his new gf dumped him....and finally the courts went after him for other reasons of money theft and all from the company. I never spoke a word or spoke up about anything.

I could of hurt him for a day or week.....man upstairs crushed him for the next 10 yrs. Leave the revenge to the man upstairs...he is the master of it.

Answer 3

First, you would be no better than he/it/they.
Second, 2 wrongs don't make a right.
Third, you should have already forgiven and went on w/ life.
Fourth, you can bet that they are not sitting around shaking in their shoes looking over their shoulders waiting on you to get them back. They have probably forgotten by now anyway!
Who's the bigger man, here?

Answer 4

Should anyone intentionally destroy a house by fire, him also shall ye burn; should anyone deliberately take another’s life, him also shall ye put to death. # 62

The law of Bahá’u’lláh prescribes the death penalty for murder and arson, with the alternative of life imprisonment (see note 87).
In His Tablets ‘Abdu’l-Bahá explains the difference between revenge and punishment. He affirms that individuals do not have the right to take revenge, that revenge is despised in the eyes of God, and that the motive for punishment is not vengeance, but the imposition of a penalty for the committed offence. In Some Answered Questions, He confirms that it is the right of society to impose punishments on criminals for the purpose of protecting its members and defending its existence. 204
With regard to this provision, Shoghi Effendi in a letter written on his behalf gives the following explanation:
In the Aqdas Bahá’u’lláh has given death as the penalty for murder. However, He has permitted life imprisonment as an alternative. Both practices would be in accordance with His Laws. Some of us may not be able to grasp the wisdom of this when it disagrees with our own limited vision; but we must accept it, knowing His Wisdom, His Mercy and His Justice are perfect and for the salvation of the entire world. If a man were falsely condemned to die, can we not believe Almighty God would compensate him a thousandfold, in the next world, for this human injustice? You cannot give up a salutary law just because on rare occasions the innocent may be punished.
The details of the Bahá’í law of punishment for murder and arson, a law designed for a future state of society, were not specified by Bahá’u’lláh. The various details of the law, such as degrees of offence, whether extenuating circumstances are to be taken into account, and which of the two prescribed punishments is to be the norm are left to the Universal House of Justice to decide in light of prevailing conditions when the law is to be in operation. The manner in which the punishment is to be carried out is also left to the Universal House of Justice to decide.
In relation to arson, this depends on what “house” is burned. There is obviously a tremendous difference in the degree of offence between the person who burns down an empty warehouse and one who sets fire to a school full of children.

Answer 5

I would do nothing . Give up your hard feelings and forgive them even if they don't ask.unforgiveness is a horrible,gut wrenching, stress producing, heart attack waiting to happen. Don't let this person control you don't let them ruin your life. Treat them nice if you see them Smile and go on. They will spend the rest of the day wondering what you know that they don't ,and you will spend the rest of the day going on with your life.It is not necessary for you to get revenge, God says vengeance is his and believe me they will pay for wronging you.Gods revenge is final and he doesn't get arrested so leave it to him.

Answer 6

I personally think karma is a *****... What people put out there comes back to them 3 fold. I don't worry about revenge, I know that people get what's coming to them...

Answer 7

well I personally do not believe in revenge because that is what you are talking about. I feel rather in "every dog will have their day" kinda theory and so far for me anyway it has worked. why waste your time fighting the worlds just sit back and watch the stupidity.

Answer 8

I would look up there last name in a phone book. Get there address. Get pictures of there house from google satellite. Put two molotov cocktails in a bag. Have someone who can drive drop me near there house at night. Light the towels simultaneously. Pitch one cocktail on the roof and one through a window. RUN AWAY!!!

P.s.: Maybe two wrongs don't make a right, but neither do a right and wrong...I would get at safe distance in bushes and watch that house burn enjoying every second of it. ;)

Answer 9

I would act as if it didn't affect me at all and completely ignore them. If they still manage to get through to you, then act extremely kind to them. This is the best way to get back at people who did something bad to you. It makes them feel guilty.

Answer 10

There is only one acceptable form of revenge if someone has seriously wronged you. But it has to be serious enough to need revenge, not just some trivial crap that embarrassed you in high school.

The person would cease to exist.