...a friend...and u know that she's mad at you...what would u do? are u going to support her throughout her pregnancy?
2006-10-30 11:24:49 · 9 answers · asked by Irish C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
to find out if it's true you should BOTH go to the docs and get her tested on the spot. Then you'd know if she was telling the truth or not.
2006-10-30 11:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. That's still your baby, and that's something you can't -- and hopefully don't want to -- walk away from.
Your cue at this time is to get in touch with her again -- send her flowers, start courting her all over again -- and hopefully you'll get back together again. If that's not what you want, then send her flowers anyway, tell her you're going to stand behind her and help support her during the months ahead, and discuss with her with's going to happen to the baby, whether it will be given up for adoption (please, not to Madonna!) or how you will help support her and the child if she decides to keep it. You are liable for child support in any case, so you can either be a cool guy and step up and offer to do it, or wait until she drags you to court. Might as well take the high road, my friend. It's better in the long run.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-30 19:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should support her no matter if the two of you are together or not. It is still your child. Try to talk to her and ask her why she didn't tell you. But if you found out from a friend, make sure that friend isn't lying about you ex being pregnant. Good Luck
2006-10-30 19:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She needs a lot of support and it is your child. I'm in a similar situation. I found out I was pregnant right after my ex and I broke up. He has been somewhat supportive and it helps that he is around.
2006-10-30 22:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Megan W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know for a fact that she really is pregnant and that she wasnt cheating on you then as the father to the baby "YES" u should be there. You need to call and let her know that even though things didnt work out between u two that you need to communicate for the child sake. Would you be able to go on knowing you have a child out there and not know how they're doing? Or even would you want to know who your father was if you were young. I believe ever child needs to know their parents no matter what.
2006-10-30 21:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go through the whole paternity test thing..
But if you were dumb enough to have unprotected sex while you're still as immature as you seem to be (based on this post..) then you deserve whatever fate you get. It's not your decision at any rate. If the child is yours, and she doesn't abort it, then you will be paying child support until the child is 18 years old and has moved out of the house. Haha, sucks to be you.
Welcome to life. I'll see you at mcdonalds.
2006-10-30 19:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by La Voce 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you had better help support her by at least helping with medical bills and you had better help support that baby once it gets here. Being mad at a person doesn't absolve you of your parental responsibilities, if you didn't want to take the chance of becoming a parent you shouldn't have been having sex.
2006-10-30 19:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course shes gonna need all the support she can get
2006-10-30 19:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by church_gore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its your baby...step up to the plate...just because you broke up doesnt mean that means you can break it off with the unborn baby.....
2006-10-30 19:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋