So far i've been the active on in bed and have had no problems with that, but her new want scares me.
2006-10-30 11:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by mongoliant 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe she just wants to use it while she has it....Did you talk to her about why she wants to do that? I don't think it will make you gay. Gay men normally like men, but I am not sure what kind of "category" you fall in for loving a TS...sorry, not enough experience with that. BUT a lot of straight men like anal play too...
2006-10-30 11:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by raebelk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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My girlfriend is a Pre-op MtF TS. She says she wants to penetrate me. Wont that make me gay?
So far i've been the active on in bed and have had no problems with that, but her new want scares me.
2015-08-19 02:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious I think you have no other option than to try having sex in the receiving way. You might like it.
Personally I would have my doubts about how pre-op your gf is.
Most pre-ops take a cocktail of hormones that tend to reduce their libido (sex drive). Furthermore a great many T people have a certain distate for penetrative sex.
It's up to you if you want to continue in this relationship and I would certainly not pass judgement on you. Only what you say makes me wonder if you gf really intends to have surgery or not.
I think you need to work this out together.
You could have a rewarding relationship with her, but you will have to make compromises.
I hope you are having safe sex.
2006-10-30 12:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that makes you gay is if you become sexually aroused at the thought of her as a man, or the idea that a man is penetrating you.
Many women use strap-ons to penetrate their straight husbands. This is a version of that, except your lady already has one growing right out of her!
Do it if you want it, but if you don't, say so. But don't not want it because you're scared it will make you gay. It won't. Doesn't mean a thing- you're with a lady.
2006-10-30 11:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything you don't want to
your girl friend it properly testing you to see what you do
and maybe questioning what she is going though
the fact you are in the relationship in the first place takes a lot of courage
the old saying your only gay if you resieve
is not really true
if you are turned on by the fact she has a penis then maybe you are gay
if that has nothing to do with it then maybe your not
the most important thing is you love your girl friend
love has no boundaries race disability age or gender
it is important that you be what you feel
if you do not want to have sex in the suggested way then say no
if she runs away know love is what was not keeping you together
i am a pre op transsexual myself and i question my sexuality all of the time i know my gender but i love girls but love to play with the guys to that i suppose makes me bi but very undecided
your partner is only trying to see what she really is she sounds like she is a very strong person
good luck but remember to be your self
any only do things you are comfortable with
2006-10-30 12:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are dating a male. You may not be or consider yourself gay, but remember a pre-op TS is a male. Gay does not mean Top or Bottom. Gay means you are having sex with a male. If are not gay and do not want to do gay things then stop having sex with a male. If you ARE gay then your question makes no sense. Did you think you would just top her forever?
2006-10-30 11:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why not try it? Don't you want to have new sexual experiences? It's obviously scary when you're not the one in control, but every top should be a bottom at least ONCE in their life! Who knows? You might reaaally enjoy it! Just make sure you prep... lots of lube. *smiles*
2006-10-30 11:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude - you are dating a man that is attempting to become a woman. BUt she is a man right now. That in itself screams GAY. Face it... Youre a pitcher, not a catcher. Let him/her know that before you get your sphincter assaulted.
2006-10-30 11:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my GF wanted the same thing after 4 months of dating exclusively her and her me. I used a dildo to get used to it, lots of lube, and guess what. She loved it and I loved making her happy. FYI, I did the something with the dildo to learn how to deep throat, needless to say we both are happy
2015-04-27 05:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by HLD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, no it will not make you gay, next why not let her, you never know you both might enjoy it.
2006-10-30 11:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋