Why does it feel like your reliving the day he died, when you get an insurance check?

Question

My dad would want me to be happy, but all I can do is cry.

Answer 1

So sorry to hear of your lost i have been there i know the guilty feelings and the hurt but i guess after time and it is different for everyone things heal and don't feel bad about any checks your Dad must have wanted to you to have them clearly he loved you ask a Friend for a hug and cry all you want its OK

Answer 2

There will be more days like that. Time will help. Also, while its ok to spend some days grieving, force yourself to be around people you enjoy. That helped me a lot. I recommend spending some of the money on something that you would normally enjoy doing together. That also helps for his birthday. Its kind of hard at first, but eventually it can turn into a celebration of his life. My dad was a gambler, so every year on his birthday everyone gets together and heads to the casino in his honor.

Answer 3

Oh dear. Sorry for your loss. Life sucks. Getting the check is just another reminder of your loss. Cry all you want. it's okay to let it out. You'll feel more relieved when you cry then if you hold it in. Take care.

Answer 4

because its like a slap in the face!Like their saying here,this is what your Father,s life was worth!But your right,Your dad took that insurance out for you to be Happy!Just put it aside right Now!In bank,and give yourself time to heal a little better before you deal with the money,And Remember,Your dad would also want you to use it to better your life!God Bless and I,m sorry for your Lost!Hollywood

Answer 5

Sometimes it takes a while for it to sink in. I didn't cry when my Dad died, but when his dog died a year later, I cried like a baby.

Answer 6

You would rather have him back than have that check.