My girlfriend has dumped me and i don't know what i did wrong....You see i was going out with her for 6 months and she moved in with me 2 months ago..So last week,with me being kind hearted, i decide to do something special for her...i installed strobe lighting in my bedroom...When she came home she asked me why i installed strobe lighting in the bedroom i told her 'that it would make her look like she was moving when we made loved'....she packed her bags there and then and moved out without saying a word ,i did get a slap in the dish(face)...What did i do wrong and how do i win her back....??????
2006-10-30 10:55:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That was pretty funny. Thanks for the afternoon laugh.
2006-10-30 11:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like this is something she was planning on doing anyway. She just used the lights as an excuse. You didnt do anything wrong. Dont beat yourself up over it. I mean Im sure you cared alot about her. But how much did she care about you if she just moved out. You should just move on and shell realize that she did wrong and shell be the one crawling back to you and if she doesnt, goes to show shes isnt the one for you. You deserve more respect than what she gave you. Good Luck
2006-10-30 11:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it was the strobe lights that caused her to leave? Couldn't there be a deeper reason that you're just not aware of ? Ask her why than get over it and get on with your life. If nothing else, you'll know what not to do in your next relationship.
2006-10-30 11:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by puzzleraspie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 13:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by bridgman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u told her that it would make her look like she was moving when u make love. that's not good she probably thought that u insulted her. she is probably thinking that u thinks she suck in the bedroom. **** luck trying to fix this one. u can remove the lights and go beg her back. please look sincere, just know even if she comes back she is going to think mayb u were telling the true or mayb u still feel that way. it may affect u both, cause she is going to b paranoid. good luck.
2006-10-30 11:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y would you install a strob light with out telling her you guys should have talked about it first. I would of freaked out to it would just be weird.. who knows maybe she h=just didint like you get over it!!
2006-10-30 11:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you install those lights?? whatever they are, she was probably really offended and or self causicous. You should explain to her that it was supposed to be a gift and you didnt mean to diss her in any way! Apologize, get her flowers and get rid of those lights, becuase i guess she really didnt like them!
2006-10-30 10:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Elena M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you told her that it made her look like she was moving when you made love Maybe she took it to mean that making love to her was like screwing a rock
2006-10-30 13:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jack C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk it out with her explain to her why you got the lights in the first place and ask her what went wrong??
2006-10-30 11:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was probably an excuse to leave you. Too BAd!
2006-10-30 11:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but your girls pretty insecure....damn!!! umm move on shes ridiculous
2006-10-30 11:00:06 · answer #11 · answered by samantha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋