every since we broken up all he constantly talk about how he dont want this baby especially when he got another girl pregnant the same time as me. so now he went out and got him a new girlfriend he claim he dont want nobodys baby. but thats crazy cause we use to be in love which i thought. and we been 2gether for almost 2 years and he is going with a little girl
2006-10-30 10:33:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Embrace the girl he also got pregnant, that is your child's sibling, they should get to know each other. Then you both go after his butt for child support. If he is with an underaged girl, then let the apporpriate people know, if he isn't then there isn't much you can do about him. I would also tell his parents about the baby, he may not want to be apart of its life but his mom and dad might. Hope that helps
2006-10-30 10:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by victoria E. 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't regret anything.....I would keep the baby. Let him write the baby out of his life, but that child will understand someday. I would tell him he will have to be responsible for that child until it is 18. You have rights too....you need to do what is best for YOU. If you want it keep it. I know a lot of people who have had abortions and adoption and regret it. I don't know how you handle depression or anything, but I do know that if you carry to full term, you won't be able to give up the child, it will be too hard. You can do better then him. Also, the tale about a guy never wanting you after you have a baby is a lie. My best friend has a 5 year old and divorced at 22. She has found a great caring guy and they are 6 months pregnant. There is hope out there. Don't listen to anyone but you and your heart. I hope this helps!
2006-10-30 10:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Peek A Boo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its a little too late for that huh? Make him pay child support. He doesn't have to want the baby to take responsibility for it. He is just a little boy, who doesn't want to grow up. If he didn't want the baby, he should have used a condom, and since he has two babies on the way, I guess he can pay child support for two kids.
Good luck with everything, there are a lot of women who raise kids alone. Be strong!
2006-10-30 10:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by tnmomof2as 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not the baby's fault, so have the baby and go from there, find a great family to adopt(there are so many people wanting to adopt) or raise your child don't expect him to be in the childs life, and do the best you can, the guy sounds like a royal Loser
2006-10-30 10:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that BEFORE you got pregnant!!!!
I don't know why girls or women would get pregnant when they are NOT in a committed relationship. The guy is free to leave at anytime & then you are left with a baby & a fight to get the bum to pay for it..... Where do you think welfare moms come from. USE BIRTH CONTROL for crying out loud!!!!!
Your stuck with the results of your own irresponsible actions & the one to suffer will be the baby & the tax payers who will have to support it & more than likely you!!!!
2006-10-30 10:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear that it is a sad situation. But honestly there is nothing you can do if he doesn't want to be with you. Trying to force him too will just make the situation worse on everyone. I would suggest going on with your life and after your baby is born make sure he pays child support.
2006-10-30 10:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't matter if he doesn't want the baby anymore. What matters is if you want the baby or not. You can do it by yourself, you don't need him. It might be hard but it will be worth it once you see your little one for the first time. Hope everything works out.
2006-10-30 10:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by brittneyn127 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep the baby make him take care of his child maybe you should talk to the other girl and see if he is telling her the same thing after all your children will be related.
2006-10-30 11:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by jolynn j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him. His lose. I raised my daughter for 4years without a man and she has done extreamly well. Just concentrate on your child and yourself and when the baby is born take him for child support.
2006-10-30 10:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's his attitude, he's being selfish. Don't bother with him any more, he's not worth your time and you don't need the stress. Concentrate on taking care of yourself and try to get help from your family and friends.
2006-10-30 10:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋