2006-10-30 10:25:34 · 25 answers · asked by ken t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Have you ever felt attracted to guys before or is this a new thought? If you have thought of being sexually involved with guys before it could be that you are gay or bisexual and have repressed those feelings and tried to lead what is perceived as a "normal" life. If you have never felt this way before, it could just be a curiosity. If the feelings persist, you will have to question what kind of life you want to lead in the future.
2006-10-30 10:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what's stopping you?
Yes your relationship.
So if you want to be honest you will have to tell your wife.
Deep water there.
Doing it behind her back. Will you feel okay about that? What about if you get a disease? Fall in love?
Seems to me you are going to have to deal with your feelings in some way or another. Perhaps first try counselling and then perhaps get your wife involved. Maybe she'd be turned on by the idea. Another possibility is a threesome, with a man.
You really need to talk to her I think.
2006-10-30 12:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only good reason to end a marriage is if you are no longer emotionally and sexually attracted to your wife. If you still love and desire her but have extra desires on top of that, it isn't enough.
Only good way to have extramarital relations (whether with men or women) is to get your wife to OK it (some wives do). Until she does, it's a no-no unless you separate or divorce.
Hope that helps.
P.S.- don't worry about your desire to explore the same sex. Don't think of it as anything new or different unless you lost interest in women, in which case you may have to rethink your sexual orientation.
2006-10-30 10:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I left the church almost immediately in the previous I grew to become 19. as quickly as I grew to become 18, the pushing all started. I had an interview with my Bishop approximately marriage, and how it replace into significant that i all started looking. They transfered me to the singles ward appropriate away. i replace into continuously being set up, on the different hand a techniques as people making bets on how long it would take me to get married (i assume you'll be able to desire to declare I;m incredibly appealing). If my mothers and fathers had missionaries over for dinner, jokes have been cracked approximately them coming decrease back to marry me. My Dad had even talked to me approximately being married in the previous I grew to become 19. I hadn't even MET anybody yet! not long after, I end!! The pushing replace into the optimal ingredient in the commencing up. yet, observed via so a lot greater and making me very business enterprise in my determination. My family if reality be told did a similar a pair of 12 months later. Now, I even have been courting my boyfriend of two and a one million/2 years, we live at the same time, and are in the technique of procuring for a house. My mothers and fathers at the instant are the final ones to push us in the direction of marraige.
2016-10-16 13:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by bridgman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either tell your wife and decide together what course to follow, divorce her so you can pursue this without violating your marriage vows, or allow your fantasies to remain just that.
If you go behind her back, you'll be creating a huge problem for yourself and for her. She deserves the right to establish what kind of risk she's willing to take, and to require you to wear condoms from now on if you're seeking sex outside of the marriage.
2006-10-30 10:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men are hot hahaha... But hey over my 19 years of living hahaha I found that married men are more attracted to the same sex than single or non-married men are... And well they're more hotter in bed to hahahahaha... or is that just a rumor as well???
2006-10-30 10:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by keau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married 17 years to a man and my soul mate moved next door. She and I have been together now for 14 years. I have never felt more complete and happy in my entire life.....most people don't realize their gay until later in life...if you are you are. Try it and see how you feel. Good luck...
2006-10-30 10:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How hot would you like your particular part of Hell TO BE?
I,like many other people are SICK TO DEATH OF YOU F-GS
forcing your sick desires on the rest of the world!!!! I have a compelling urge to pass gas. Would you care to discuss this at length in a public forum? People like you are why the BIBLE says HELL is being ENLARGED DAILY!!!!!!! If you want to fill
that dead space inside of you then why not RUN to the ONLY answer, JESUS CHRIST?! You may remember hearing of
those infamous towns of yesterday,Sodom and Gomorrah?
If so I am sure you also know where the inhabitants of those cities call home today and for eternity. They were destroyed for being homosexuals , child molesters and every other kind of deviant sexual behavior known. By the Way, there are NO atheists in hell. They all believe......NOW!
2006-10-30 10:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by softspot 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I suppose better late than never, but it is not going to be what you think it will be. You are going to be expected to be actively involved, not some bystander who gets done...are you ready for that? The name of the game is discretion, period. Where would you find a partner? A SAFE partner? Not only would they have to be safe, they would have to have a place that is private. Think carefully before you leap. And if you leap, keep it to yourself forever more. NEVER let your wife know anything about it...it would be devastating.
2006-10-30 10:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
most guys feel that at some point in there lives, not many brave enough to admit it though so well done. if you try it and dont like it well so what, its no big deal & at least your mind will be put to rest, if you like it then theres more to think about in your case i guess, your not the 1st and wont be the last.
2006-10-30 10:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋