my boyfriend doesnt like my family for the way my family treats him. but my family feels that till the time there is no commitment they wouldnt want to do too much. i dont like the building tension between them both.please help me.
2006-10-30 10:24:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are the mediator, do something about it. Since you are the sole link between your family and your boyfriend, then you have to allow them to get to know each other. Tell you boyfriend what the family wants from him. You mentioned commitment. If he truly loves you then he will commit...on the other hand, your family should know the good things about your boyfriend. Tell them about these. Surely through you, they will strike a compromise and will be able to understand each other more.
2006-10-30 19:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is true.
Family is trying to protect you, they may be right.
I hope you are old enough.
You said "no commitment they wouldnt want to do too much".
What is it that your friend want from your family?
They may feel like the boy is just using you to get some thing from them.
Hope you can find out and work it out.
2006-10-30 18:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the boyfriend to retain the love for you always and then think about your family and secondly you can't enforce it on him to like (love)someone
2006-10-31 06:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by poloneck20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i thin ku should listen to ur parents , but i wouldn't say not to listen to ur bf cuz i understand how love is and everything anywayz i think u should explain to ur bf watever ur parents are planning to do and ask him to take steps to ur parents. It wouldn't be that hard for him if he loves ya so much seriously dont worry a thing.
2006-10-30 18:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by gleopathra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, whatever you do, do it now. Or later, you may have to make choice between these two.
2006-10-31 08:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love his family ...and make him realize that if u love his family...howeve they behave...then why cant he.tell him that one day he has to be in relationship with them and he shud not hate them as he loves u..and they r u'r part..and if he denies...then..u shud know..family comes first!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 23:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by coolest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with great difficulty!
good luck
2006-10-30 18:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋