What's wrong with me I feel no attraction for the same sex whatsoever? Am I strange? How come everyone else seems to feel these urges? I want a label like everyone else to indentify myself by. I can't even pretend, I seem to have been given the revulsion gene, when everybody else has the attraction gene for the same sex.
2006-10-30 09:44:55 · 22 answers · asked by Barbara Doll to you 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds more like your spotlight has gone out.
2006-10-30 09:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Raymo 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I thought you had to be 13 to get on here.
Almost everyone has feelings of attraction, more or less, to both sexes. You can't have a pulse, and not think some men are good-looking or some women. Tom Cruise, Angelina, Brad Pitt, Jlo
If you are attracted to you same sex, then you are. If not, then you are not. One day, you may decide differently. Never say never. Give yourself permission to feel what you feel.
You may not want to ACT on what you feel. That is up to you, and your religion.
Try not to harshly judge other people who just don't feel the same way you do. You have no idea how they got there. The harder you are on other people, the harder you judge YOURSELF, too.
It does not take anything away from you for you to be gay or not gay, for others to be gay or not gay.
Live your own life, and stay out of other people's business.
2006-10-30 09:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with u, apart from ur wanting to be something u're not. U ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE ATTRACTED TO THE SAME SEX! u are perfectly normal. and not everyone else, but few people have those 'urges', and believe me they're still trying to fit into most societies. the only label u need is the label that says who u really are, not who u want to be. it's a good thing rather than a bad one that u can't pretend. the only thing u can be in this life, is urself. so stay real. ask urself if u are attracted to the opposite sex cos that's how u're supposed to be. if ur parents hadnt been attracted to the opposite sex, u wouldnt be here today!
2006-10-30 10:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by divagal08 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well let's clear this up once and for all. I will put on my strap-on on, then bend you over. I'll attach the biggest end I have in the box, then I'll make you pay. Tell your thoughts and feelings to some-one who actually gives a f*ck. Maybe you'll find the answer.
*lol*
2006-10-30 09:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by TotalBitch 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you have feelings for the oppisite sex? Not everyone in the world is attracted to the same sex.
2006-10-30 09:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't curious you wouldn't be in the Gay, Lesbian, Bi, and Tranny section out of this whole entire site. So either you are a little too immature and messing with us or you're curious; in which case I need to bring you to a club with me. I'm sure we can get at least one taker so you can get it in the butt.
2006-10-30 09:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know, it's sad, but listen: not everyone can be in the club, or it wouldn't be cool any more.
Better luck in your next life, and for now, just try to make the best of being straight. You can't help it, and it's nothing to be ashamed of.
:-)
2006-10-30 09:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I find your question offensive...you appear to be making fun of gay people who do have the opposite attributes that you are mentioning....I could give you a label to call youself but I'd probably be suspended...Making fun of other people is a very low form of humour.
2006-10-30 10:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
No your not gay your Hetrosexual like the vast majority of people. Sounds like you have a lot of gay friends though!
2006-10-30 09:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rob S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a label you are straight. I am so glad we could clear that up.
If you do not like that label I have a few more but they are less flattering.
2006-10-30 09:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋