she thinks shes fat because i way less than her and she says shes going to not eat. what should i do?
2006-10-30 09:44:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she should lose some weight
2006-11-03 03:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by cool nerd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just really vain & insecure at the same time and need to hear you say "oh you're not fat".
My mother-in-law is one of these "I'm so fat" people & she maybe weighs 95 pounds. Even when I was pregnant all I ever heard from her is how fat she was...when you are 9 months along that is the last thing you need to hear someone say...you start to think geez if she is fat what the hell am I?
I started to ignore her whenever she brought up the "I'm so fat" thing. Changed the focus to something else. It may be rude but from where I sit she is being rude to me when I am a few pounds overweight on a good day.
Now if your friend is causing damage to herself by not eating then you have to help her understand that she isn't. You may have to let her parents or other importmant people in her life know about this before she gets really sick. Society today makes such a big deal out of fat & skinny...as long as you are happy and healthy that is all that matters. Life is WAY too short to be obsessed with our looks.
2006-10-30 09:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree with her.. it'll piss her off for a bit but i'll bet she'll stop saying it. Ok bad answer i know.. but the best way to deal with that is to just ignore it. or even sit her down and tell her that she isn't fat, and that it bugs you that she keeps saying she's fat. She has a low self-esteem. Hang out with her and help her have a good time a lot and her self-esteem should rise. Do things that will make her feel better... avoid bikini shopping.
2006-10-30 09:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy of Two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would she expect you both to weight exactly the same?? She needs to realize that her body is fine. Maybe shes taller. Everyone has different body structure. Shes being silly. She may say she wont eat but until you see evidence of it, dont worry about it.
2006-10-30 09:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Idon't know about that but you can tell her the truth has a friend. You can tell that anybody could see that dosen't matter has long has ur u. Go shopping a little and have fun and let herself feel comfrotable about herself tells me what happens at alexadra0195@yahoo.com. Good Luck!
2006-10-30 09:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Babygirl101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. She probably wants the attention and expects you to call her skinny all the time. It's an ego booster. If you want her to stop, just don't say anything to her.
Example"
Her: I'm so fat
You: If you say so.
Or something.
2006-10-30 09:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw a pic of an outline of her body some ppl have body conciousc issues and really have no idea what they look like if this doesn't work she's just being herself
2006-10-30 12:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't gain weight just because she thinks she's fat... She just wants to hear someone say "Oh, you're skinny!"
2006-10-30 09:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep encouraging her that she is beautiful and be a good friend and be there for her. It is not healthy not to eat that will never work.
2006-10-30 09:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Drea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Phil
2006-10-30 09:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a guy to tell her gurls always feel great when a guy tells her that she is skinny!!!
2006-10-30 09:49:46 · answer #11 · answered by ROCKSTAR IN LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋