We are in our late twenties, and it is a serious relationship. We don't want to move in with each other until we are married, but aside from each of us going to work almost every day, in our free time we are always together. It seems to work out fine, though I wonder if this is healthy? What do you think?
2006-10-30 09:43:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My boyfriend and I are the same exact way. I don't see anything wrong with it, although you're always gonna get others opinion's saying that it's not healthy and you need to spend time with other people. If it's working for you and you both are happy, don't change a thing. We've been dating for 5 years and we are so inseparable. We do get criticized for it, but we are so happy and love spending every free moment with each other. It doesn't matter what other people say or think. My boyfriend is my absolute best friend and anything that I want to do I chose to do it with him. Who cares what others say?? All that matters in your relationship is your opinion and his and your HAPPINESS!! Don't let any body try to make you feel that you spend too much time together and that it's not healthy.
2006-10-30 09:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by devious805er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with that, and I also think that it is great that you two aren't going to move in together until you get married. One thing you may consider about your question, is that although you are spending all of your free time together, don't be surprised if you or he needs time alone. That is where understanding and patience comes into effect, but it sounds again that things are going great, so good luck and God bless.
2006-10-30 09:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is. You are still your own person and have your own friends that you may not think so, but you Do still need your time with your friends, away from one another. Being with someone too much, you can end up losing yourself along the way, and then they start getting agervated and wanting time with there friends and then you get hurt wondering what the problem is, because as far as you know, theres never been anything wrong. Its normal in the begining to be with eachother as much as possible, but I do suggest that after that, you find some comfort in spending time again with your friends like you use to, and him to do the same. If you want this to last with little fighting and agervating going on. You are still you and you still have your friends, save some time for them too. Blessed be........................
2006-10-30 09:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who am i to tell u its unhealthy, my boyfriend and i are practically a pair. we run a business together, he wants me to spend most working days at his place after work, when his friends come to visit we are quick to spot when they outstay their welcome so we can have sometime alone (it not all sex really, though theres lots of that too), when am away we talk on phone for long.
we've been together for two & half years! so? is that too much?. i guess its depends on how the people in it see it. if you both dont think its unhealthy and get into frictions as most people say is the case, then enjoy it but if you both feel unhealthy about it then give some space.
as i said, i might not be so good an example for this one 'cos am crimson guilty of the same case and am loving it!!!
2006-10-30 10:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by joanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the problem? If you never get tired of spending your every single minute of your time with him then it means that you truly love that person.
That is one of the reason I married my husband. I never got tired of him and still want him more and more even though we are married and living together.
Instead of questioning this action, just be thankful that you have found somebody that love to be with you as well.
2006-10-30 09:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by L!LO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever since my husband and I got together 3 years ago we are rarely apart unless he is at work. As long as you are both happy then who cares. There is nothing wrong with it. If you love being together then you are a good step ahead of most people in relationships.
MY husband and I talk about everything and get along great. We do alot of things together. We are good relationship role models for our kids.
2006-10-30 09:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i would love that!, but it is really smart that you two do not move in before marriage. that is not healty, but spending time together almost everyday....well I would narrow that down. Have some space, and see other people on your free time, go hang with ur girlfriends, and he hang with his friends, try to just see eachother on weekends, or maybe three times a week or four times a week...let there be a little I MISS YOU BABE! God bless, and I hope you two have a strong relationship!
2006-10-30 09:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband and I live together...duh...but we also work together. NOT healthy. I'm in the process of trying to move up to management to get off the same shift as him, he is thinking of changing locations after the holidays. You need to have some time apart so you can maintain your sense of self. If there is no "you" and there is no "him", it is going to be difficult to keep a "y'all".
2006-10-30 11:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to tug it mutually and tutor appreciate for you back. theres no excuse to yell at you in public etc, regardless of the undeniable fact that we could bear in mind that each and every physique has undesirable days here and there. yet whilst its occurring each and all of the time then thats an argument that ought to be addressed. one enormous component i've got found out is that relationships replace and wont stay a similar- we can get used to particular issues in a dating alongside with u seeing him daily, yet then now and back there are activities in life that make that regulate.. and u can the two understand its no longer a similar dating u had previously and be comfortable with it, or be certain its merely no longer what u choose for anymore. yet i think of accepting replace is a factor of each and every dating that works out.
2016-11-26 19:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it isn't broken don't fix it! They say absence makes the heart grow founder, but I am not sure about in your relationship. The main thing that is important is you (each of you) do not loose who you are - like your friends, family, interests, hobbies - make sure you still do the things that makes you "you".
2006-10-30 09:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by Carey L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋