i watched the mtv diary of san combs(p didy spelling) and he kissed his two male children on their mouths before he left the hotel. i found it to be wired and i am not say parents especially fathers not to kiss his children but they should not kiss them on the mouth both male and female. today that became a huge topic in ubarn radio stations in chicago. many people veiwed that to be wired and nasty . so would you kiss your son on the lips if you are a dad. what is your take.
2006-10-30 09:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by WEEDG 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I wouldn't kiss my kids on the lips, but that is just a societal convention. The only reason why people consider it weird and nasty is because society has taught them that. It is quite normal in other countries and within different cultural groups.
As there is nothing sexual about it, it should not bother you in a sexual way.
2006-10-30 09:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We need a certain amount of repressed sexuality. Or some of us think so. But in our house my dad kissed us all on the mouth from time to time. It was mostly when we were younger. My mom told him to cool it once I was seven. I think as an adult the experience has made me more open minded.
2006-10-30 09:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by mike t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't raised in a house like that, but many are and it is totally normal. When kids kiss, they don't think of sex. To kiss your children like that is totally fine. It's not like their making out, it's just an affectionate peck. Anyway, I think it is totally appropriate and is very normal... even though I was raised like that. I think it is harmful for people to place their perverse judgments on a very innocent situation like this one.
2006-10-30 09:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's OK for a father to kiss his kids (including his sons). It shows that he loves them.
2006-10-30 09:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an inappropriate time for that if they are older(mature physical), I have that problem now that my oldest is a teenager, I noticed he is uncomfortable and found out ,now that he is aware of me physical, it is uncomfortable for him to receive hugs in the front. So now I give him hugs from the side. It all depends what the intention is and if the child is uncomfortable.
2006-10-30 09:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Proud MOM 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its Shawn Combs ( learn to spell, smartass) and no, its not ok. Kissing somebody besides your wife (if you can get one) thats tyour family is not okay. People might think you molesting you children
2006-10-30 09:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by The [alter] Black [ego] Parade 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I do not see a thing wrong with it. It may not be for you, but-----the way you do things isn't always the way it is.
2006-10-30 09:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Shossi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ok as long as you use tongue
2006-10-30 09:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by rectal itch 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋