well i have this friend who is obsessed with mariah carey and she loves her shes always looking at pictures of her on the computer and she even looks up naked pictures of her...i dont kno if she loves her that much or...you kno..so shes always looking up naked pictures of women im like...okay..she doesnt talk about guys much but yet if u mess around with her she'll be like no! i dont go that way...and deny it maybe shes bycurious i really want to kno how should i ask her becuz thats very akward and i dont wanna be rude
2006-10-30 09:31:47 · 19 answers · asked by N-Rey726 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can ask her but what difference does it make?
If she says yes then what-are you prepared to deal with that?
If she says no, will you believe her, what will her reaction be to you asking, do you want to lose her as a friend?
Will she be less of a friend or a different person
You might not want to change clothes in front of her anymore
Would her being a lesbian change the things you have gone through together?
Judgement is mine said the Lord
I am not a lesbian or bi curious but I know i dont have the right to judge another and i love everyone the same (or at least i try to)
God Bless
2006-10-30 09:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by msijg 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, don't ask her. If she is gay she will tell you in her own good time.
Look at you! Your friend is into a bit of being a fan of a person who just happens to be a woman and you automatically jump to all kinds of conclusions.
You are a controlling little one aren't you?
It's like when I became obsessed with Audrey Hepburn after seeing a movie called Roman Holiday. For weeks I spent a great deal of time collecting every photograph I could find of her. My friends started to get nervous until one of them came over and told me that it didn't look good for a black man to be constantly looking at pictures of Audrey Hepburn...people might start to question my race loyalties! He and the rest of my friends jumped to some weird conclusions that just because I was looking at these pictures of Audrey Hepburn, that somehow my race allegiance was in question!
Sometimes people on this planet are so dumb and controlling it makes you want to cry.
2006-10-30 09:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just need to ask her. I had a male friend, I never even thought about doing anything with him, I just started doing him and he liked it and started to reciprocate. It was not even something that was planned. He got married and I was even his best man. When he needs a little change he comes around.
2006-10-30 09:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to stop looking up naked photos while you are around. That should solve the awkwardness.
2006-10-30 09:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by psycho_chic_in_training 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she ever thought of havin a gf?but be4 u ask her that tell her someone asked u this q and u didnot know what to answer coz u never asked ur self this q so u r askin her coz u wanna see if she had thought of this q be4 or no,and if yes what's her answer
2006-10-30 10:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or maybe she's just creepily obsessed with some star of the past and needs a wake up call before she's being arrested for stalking some poor sod.
2006-10-30 09:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Belie 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well, gently ask her if she likes boys. If she gets sorprised, just tell her that most girls woulnt be looking for nacked pics. of other girls. Women. Tell her that to you, it doesnt matter what sex she likes, to just tell the thruth. I really hopes this helps, i worked hard on this answer, so plz make it best answer!
2006-10-30 09:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by The [alter] Black [ego] Parade 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
When She is ready to tell you.. then she will .. She may not know she is acting that way.. Just let her tell you.. Dont but into her business
2006-10-30 09:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by sparkles20_72745 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my friend says just ask her but he's a guy. I say that you act like you like her and kind of flirt with her to see what she say or does then if she flirts back then you break the question to her.
2006-10-30 09:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by keep'n' it real 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please tell us where we can see these naked pictures of Mariah Carey!!!! She is a beautiful woman!
2006-10-30 09:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzys_mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋