Sometimes I like other girls, sometimes guys. I've never had a relationship with a girl. Does this mean i'm bi? (I'm a girl)
2006-10-30 09:24:09 · 8 answers · asked by jcd_5_19_92 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It could be that. It may mean you're lesbian. It may mean you're straight. Folks can, and do, go through phases. Having done the actual physical act means nothing. Being gay/lesbian/straight is **who you are attracted to** and nothing more. Now, most of us act on those attractions.
Unfortuanately there is no "litmus test" to knowing whether you are gay or bisexual or straight, other than just knowing. (You've read and heard the stories of the 60 year old who finally accepted their sexuality.)
It may mean that you are coming to terms with your feelings versus what society has taught you to feel.
On the Kinsey scale of 0 (totally gay) to 6 (totally straight), most everyone falls somewhere between 1 and 5. Our feelings and attrations are fluid... and can change over time.
Don't sweat it too bad.
2006-10-30 09:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by yetanothergwm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Or depending on your age it could mean that you are just going through an experimentation phase in your life. You don't have to have a relationship with another girl to know whether or not you like it or not. The mere fact that it does not disgust you to think about it says you would probably like it.
2006-10-30 17:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a chance.
I had a few crushes on girls last year, but dismissed the notion because I also got all giggly over boys.
At the moment, I've been with my girlfriend for almost 6 months, and we're perfectly happy together.
You'll never know if you don't have an open mind.
2006-10-30 17:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Vivien 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexually attracted to guys and girls, then you are bisexual, yup. Remember, you don't have to sleep with ANYONE to know that you're bisexual- take it from me, a bi virgin of both sexes. It's all about who you're attracted to. You don't have to date both at the same time to prove to anyone, and you don't have to have threesomes. Of course, you can do all this if you want, but don't feel pressured. Enjoy being bisexual!
2006-10-30 17:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, but you should try it first! And, be honest with the woman, don't let her think you are a lesbian or bi, let her know you are curious. Curiosity is the spice of life.
2006-10-30 17:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jazzys_mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably you are bi but you wont know till you try so enjoy
2006-10-30 17:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , thats what low morals do to people.
2006-10-30 17:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by rhinestone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iwish you where i am open
2006-10-30 17:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by jessica l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋