She starts clinicals or w/e in January and wont be working until she's finished. Both of us are stressed and developing medical issues trying to get throught this nursing program of hers. Well I can't spend alot of money with her not working and me supporting the both of us so what other things can I do to help her through this???
2006-10-30 09:06:32 · 9 answers · asked by Joshua4F1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do your best to take any burden off of her. Make dinner, help with laundry or do it all yourself once in a while. The less your wife is stressed, the less you will be stressed.
2006-10-30 09:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is so sweet that you even thought to ask instead of just being resentful. Nursing school is HARD on a lot of relationships and a lot of people dont make it, but it sounds like you are gonna be fine. Just be there for her when she needs to vent about it, help her with homework, cook dinner, help around the house.
2006-10-30 17:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw her a bubble bath tonight. Light lots of candles around the bathroom. Pour her a glass of wine.
Blindfold her, and lead her to the tub. Let her sit and be at her beck and call for a half hour or so. Adding some strawberries to feed each other is good too.
We appreciate the little things.
2006-10-30 17:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her all the support you can. encourage her by reminding her of the end result. But most of all do all of the housework and what ever you can so she can concentrate on her studies.
This too will pass. We all have been here in one form or another.
When she finally passed boards and gets that first job things will get back to normal. At least a little bit.
2006-10-30 17:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be as supportive to her as much as you can, It will be worth it in the long run. My daughter just finished nursing school and she and her hubby had the same problems but they got through it and now she has a great job that she loves.
2006-10-30 17:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend is doing the same thing and she works a fulltime job at night.
We hardly have time but we find it.
Just support her and give her as much help as she needs.
2006-10-30 17:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the house clean and just give her space...try to see things from her perspective...in nursing school 8 people divorced before we graduated.
2006-10-30 17:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by liyah's mommy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
cook her a nice dinner and afterwards, give her a bubble bath
2006-10-30 17:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show her you love her and you care about her. also be there for her.
2006-10-30 17:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by Melda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋