She doesn't like me, doesn't respect me.....(it's long so be prepared to read)?

Question

And worst of all she blames me for my break up. I mean she was my best friend but now i have second thoughts about our friendship. She was kind of in the middle of this break up, and didn't want to take one side,, so she basically was a messenger between me and my ex, actually she'd tell him all the rude things i'd say and how he got mad and boo hoo, poor him, blah blah blah. So him and I got yet in another fight because he hid my purse from me and also wrote with my makeup on paper AND used my hairbrush. >.< Any ways I asked her to not talk to him, i mean she thought he was annoying anyways..... But she said no, and now she is telling him all my secrets like my new crushes . So he'd tell the school about it!! I know it was her because she's the only one that knows those things about me, then she blames it on my other friend. I was wondering if i should shut her out, or is it too shallow?

Also she's been shut out many times, and she's been used as a third wheel A LOT

Answer 1

I'm sorry, but by the sound of your "friend" you need to LET HER GO. Even if she has been used as a third wheel before, you cant help that! Have you thought maybe she told him those things because she either A; likes him too. or B; is just that kind of person! You cant help what she does, but you CAN change wether or not you tell her your sectrets, then she cant tell them to the world.
Ask Jesus for comfort, self control, and for your friend.

Answer 2

HELL YEA. Cut that ***** OFF. First of all never NEVER tell another female wants going on in ur relationship. It seems to me like ole gurl like him if she told him all the bad things u said about him. If she was a real friend she would have stayed out of it in the first place. So i say to HELL with both of them.