My bf passed away on Oct. 7th 2006, I feel that no one knows what I am going through being now almost 8 months pregnant. I wake up calling his name and crying everyday. I miss him so much, my every thought is about him. I don't know what to do.
2006-10-30 08:46:40 · 7 answers · asked by BOBBETTA K 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Please talk to someone, a bishop, pastor, or a proffessional.
But remember to live for your baby. Your bf left you a very precious piece of himself to love and care for.
I'm sorry for your loss. good luck. and God bless.
2006-10-30 08:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by Laura R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I worry everyday that my husand will be okay...I am 10 weeks pregnant, and I don't know what I would do without him and his support. My best friend lost her husband in a plane crash when she was just 4 months pregnant...she had only been married 6 months. I can only imagine what you and her are going through, but know this...you WILL see him one day again. Death is not the end...this life is only a short time, (although right now it seems like forever) There is no hope more comforting than prayer. Pray to your loving Father in Heaven and He will comfort you in this time of difficulty. He loves you, He wants you to be happy. You are a special instrument in bringing to earth one of His spirit children. If you will trust in Him, He will bring you peace. I wish I could help you, this must be the most trying time for you. I wish I could reach out and take your pain...but I cannot. Only God can bring you the peace you are seeking. Your loved one has given you a most precious gift...the gift of life within you. When you look at your baby when it is born, you will always remember your love. Keep busy, and be excited about your upcoming birth. You will find love again. I promise you won't be alone forever. God Bless you and may He bring you the peace you seek. Love, JamiLyn
2006-10-30 17:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by jamiasl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your going threw same thing happen to me. my best friend and also my babies dad passed away the day before mothers day of this year. i think about him 24/7 i just keep my head up for my kids sake and try to do whats best for my child like you should. i know its not easy but its whats best... i am 9 months and he hasn't been there since i was like 3 months but i just went on knowing hes safe from pain and suffering since he had cancer i just do what i got to do. Just remember it does it but its best to do what you gotta do and try to move on for the babies sake. Don't stress over it. Its not good for you and the baby. Just remember all the good times you had and not the bad ones and then you can tell your child when they get older.. Keep your head up you can do it... Have Faith and good luck
2006-10-30 23:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by usa_angel_911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance is still alive but when i feel pregnant last year with our first baby my mother died and she never got to meet her first grandson she knew i was pregnant but she was sick with a brain tumour and we all knew eventually she would lose her battle just not so soon.
when she died all i could feel was anger towards her and confused. i still miss her everyday and wish she was here its so weird not having her around anymore.
i am so sorry you lost your boyfriend and your baby lost its father.
im sure you will keep his memory alive and make sure your child knows who his/her father was. and please keep his family in the picture too i'm sure they want to have a part of their son in their life too.. but im sure you will do whats best for you and baby!..
i dont know what sort of advice to give except try to stay strong and don't be afraid to ask for help when it gets too much if u try to do everything on your own you will break down... talking about things and allowing people to help will make u feel better and people wont think any les of u if u do..
2006-10-30 16:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally don't know what your going thru but my step sister is 6 months pregnant and also has a 2 yr old and her husband just passed away. and i understand what your goinh thru to an exstent.i feel for you but you will survive for your child.
2006-10-30 16:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by juicy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your loss, i can only imagine your pain. the only thing i can think of to tell you at this very moment is to have faith and believe that the father of your baby will live on in that child. i will pray for you and your child. may god bless you.
2006-10-30 16:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY EXBOYFRIEND DIED OR SO I THINK HE DIED WELL HE HAD THIS ONE GIRL PREGNANT AND SHE WAS HAVING TWINS SHE HAD A MISCARRIEGE AND SO THEIR DEAD TOOTAKE CARE OF YOUR PREGNANCY CUS HE MIGHT WANNA TAKE YOUR BABY AWAY FROM YOU
2006-10-30 17:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by west side rider 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋