If you aint wit the women she /some make it so hard to see your kids . Why is that ?
2006-10-30 08:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It gives them control over you. Just don't let it happen do what the court has asked and see the children on a regular basis. You do have rights and as long as you keep up your end then get a lawyer and enforce your rights. Give them hell right back!!
~Good Luck~
2006-10-30 14:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you are kind, honest, loving man you would know a connection between a mother and a child is deep and real. Some women have a hard time letting go, sit and talk to her, dont be defensive and aske her how to fix the situation. If she says you can visit at a certain time...be on time. Earn her trust with the baby, she has it all the time think about it!
2006-10-30 16:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by liyah's mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This new craze with the women saying " Don't go disrespecting your babies momma." Meaning because they have a child with you that they come before all other women. Cracks me up. Yes. I agree it is best for you two to treat one another with respect for the children's sake.
This using the kids as pawns to control one another is wrong in so many ways. You can only be controlled if you let them. Get a lawyer, go for your rights and ask for a place that you don't have to see one another.
2006-10-30 16:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because nobody wants to take responsibilty for their own actions and it's easier to play the blame game.
But yeah getting to know someone and getting married would probably solve half the problems we see today.
2006-10-30 16:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by snippers72 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps so you will accept responsibilty for your children. Like pay your child support ON TIME.
2006-10-30 16:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All of us woman aren't bad...My x actually has our child right now because his mother is actually very sick and I want my daughter to spend as much time with her grandmother before she goes because our daughter is the only grandchild..So see all of us woman aren't that bad.
2006-10-30 16:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by Daigsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants what's best for the children.....Can't blame her for that. Either that or she's mental and shouldn't be reproducing to begin with.
2006-10-30 16:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE THAT IS THEIR ONLY MISSION IN LIFE, I THINK SATAN IS SITTING ON THEIR SHOULDER TELLING THEM WHAT TO SAY & DO. THEY JUST CANT GIVE UP THE MAN, SO THE ONLY ENJOYMENT THEY GET IS GIVING US HELL & TORTURE. I HAVE BEEN DIVORCED FOR 9 YEARS, PAY MY CHILD SUPPORT EVERY WEEK, & THATS NOT GOOD ENOUGH. JUST SCRATCH YOUR HEAD LIKE I DO & MOVE ON. GOOD LUCK BROTHER.
2006-10-30 19:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by islandwavehunter@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda makes a good argument for getting married before making babies, doesn't it?
2006-10-30 16:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
God tells us to wait until marriage to have sex, and I guess this is one of the reasons why.
2006-10-30 17:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋