ive been bestfriends with my friend abbi but she has changed a lot and now it seems like she tries to blow me off for other friends every time we try and hang out. its so lame. i talked to her about but she acted clueless. should i still be friends with her?
2006-10-30 08:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by shannon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well if i was u i will her her space maybe that is what she need
2006-10-30 08:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to keep bf forever but you need to relise that you are not her life and maybe she needs to have diffrent friends so she can do somethings that maybe your no into. But just because she hangs out with other people you shouldn't not be her friend maybe you could encourage her to let you hang with her and her new pals and if she really isnt who you really know her to be than maybe its time you both go sperate ways bit it doesnt have to be forever. Me and my bestfriend have gone almost a year without talking but we always find are way back to eachother. So good luck ....
2006-10-30 16:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by CaSeY LyNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't use the word "friend" with everyone as, to me, being regarded "friend" is an honor that's to last until one's own dying day. I've got people with whom I'll associate, I've got people with whom I'll consider my buddy, I've got people with whom I'll grow to feel have bonded with me and I with them as family, and I've got people, though very few, with whom I've connected to and connected with and secured as my friend.
If someone's a friend of or a friend to me, then the person will ALWAYS be my friend. However, there are times, I've seen myself watching some relationships leading myself and the person growing apart, and not always growing closer together.
A friend's a friend until one's life ends, in my opinion. If you see changing going on with yours, and have addressed it, only to be blown off, I'd say you two are growing apart. By looking at how she acts towards you, she's showing you how little or much she thinks of or how little or much she values your relationship, so pay attention to what her actions are telling you. Ask yourself if you really want to be close to someone who blows you off for others every time you try and hang out, or if you'd do best accepting you're seemingly growing apart.
2006-10-30 17:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no dont be friends with her. if hanging out with her is so lame then there is no point of having her friend.
2006-10-30 16:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep being her friend but don't be in her face, in time she'll realise your a good friend
2006-10-30 16:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if u want to stay friends and u should talk it out with her and go from there
2006-10-30 16:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time. move on and get new friends, good friends. If she wants to be friends again let her come to you, and approach with caution.
2006-10-30 17:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by Who am I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋