should i go with. My penis is bigger than average so im not ashamed of it, But dont know im comfortable with it
I Know i cant help from checking her friends out. Do you think women even check guys out , so should i even worry about them looking at me.
2006-10-30 08:02:04 · 20 answers · asked by hal j 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
just go and have fun
2006-10-30 08:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it...you'll both have a great time! And yes, there is lots of looking at nude beaches...we (girls) look at the guys and they look at us, none of which is a big deal. Once you decide to get naked in a public place you can't be upset if people look at you. Just remember that looking is different from staring or gawking...it's very rude to stare or gawk at a nude beach.
As a first time guy, you may find yourself becoming physically "excited'...it seems to happen to many guys and is probably just a reaction to being around so many naked girls. It's natural, and if you don't flaunt it or start to play with it, there won't be any problems. It will probably go away by itself.
Remember, nude isn't lewd, so act appropriately and everything will be cool for you both.
I love going to the nude beach and they're the only ones I'll ever go to...bathing suits are silly and so completely unnecessary, when you really think about it. Plus, it's so great to be naked on the beach on a warm summer day.
Have a great time!
Bare hugs...
2006-10-31 07:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by nudie chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go if you feel comfortable. Let her know exactly how you fell (about the breast squeezing and friend hugging). That way, she can't say she didn't know. What does she expect you to do there...it is a nude beach and she is bringing her friends! Sounds like fun although I have never been to a nude beach! You may or may not like it, you'll never go unless you give it a try! You know you wanna go, so go!!
2016-05-22 12:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you're in a tough spot. I would think that there would be a lot of checking out goin on, and that's to be expected. Talk to your wife about it, and make sure she understands how you feel. Then, go with her. You will get bonus points for talking to her, and who knows? It may develop into something good. Keep you mind open, and don't stare toooooo much.
2006-10-30 09:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by who? me? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that if your wife invited you to go to a nude beach with her and her friends she realizes that you'll be checking out her friends and that her friends will be checking you out. She will probably mind only if you stare or make rude comments about her friends' bodies. If you have doubts, talk to your wife about your concerns. Have fun...it sounds like you have a very open minded wife!
2006-10-30 08:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you should go but before you do you both should sit down and talk about it and ultimately agree that it is inevitable to look at other naked people it is human nature, so both of you should look all you want with out showing any jealousy to the other for doing the same because in the end you are both going home together right? Hello free shot of naked ppl go for it
2006-10-30 08:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by KEL971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is it just won't happen! If you're on a beach full of naked people you're just another nude person, no matter how "big" you like to think you are. You may get the odd glance, you may not but from my experience of going to nude clubs & beaches, nudists are much more interested in the person than what they may, or may not, have between their legs.
2006-10-30 23:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if I were you, I'll do it. It shows you're a man, and you have a woman who feels comfortable with you, no matter what you do. So what's holding you back? It's not like you're going to have sex on the spot with her or anyone else. It just shows you are really comfortable in your own skin. Who knows, maybe it's an indication that you'll have a thresome.
2006-10-30 09:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by brianlv93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do sometimes. From a woman's point of view....I like to check out guys in underwear, not naked. If your wife is going to invite you to this then she must understand that you will look, as will she. Don't worry about it. If it makes you that uncomfortable, then tell her and discuss this with your wife. Also.....you don't have to be completely nude. you can wear your underwear if you feel the need to.
2006-10-30 08:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda SSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought the reason for a nude beach was to be free and not for the sexual aspects of the body.
But, that said, I would be looking and chasing that one with a nice backend and well developed penis. YeaHa!
2006-10-30 08:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing but trouble. I'd pursue the reasons your wife wants to go. This is NOT going to do your marriage any good. You will check out her friends and they WILL check you out. It's lustful and it's wrong... if you were married in a church - remember your vows. This is NOT God-honouring behaviour. Good for you for realizing it's a bad idea. God bless you both. ~Nise~
2006-10-30 08:05:54 · answer #11 · answered by newfsdrool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋