theres this girl that everyone absolutely hates. people have been telling me how bossy this girl is and how annoying she is after they see me with her. She calls me her best friend... because she doesn't have any other friends (haha).
i understand where everyone is coming from.. she's a little ***** sometimes and think shes mad cute and stuff. People think she doesn't even look human because she's SO skinny and pale. (93 pounds and 5' 5!!)
but aside from all that.. i can tell she's been through a lot. She has been through two foster family, and she finally found a mom that would care for her. HOWEVERRR she treats her mom like ****, and her mom is a mother ******* angel. DEAD serious. maybe she's been spoiled.
but everyone needs a friend to talk to and stuff.. and i feel bad because she doesn't have any.
should i remain friends with her?
2006-10-30 07:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
give it a try
2006-10-30 08:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by chi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really ought to choose between getting the nerve to tell her what you see and invite her to be hang with you if she wants to change, or you can leave. The fact is foster life sucks! It makes a mess out you! I was an absolute B**** in high school and even in college, but I was still trying to work a lot of things out. I didn't like who I was, and I am grateful to the very few people who stuck with me, but the only reason they survived me until I got things together was because they were totally honest with me, and I was not afraid to be totally honest with them in return. It's up to you. Are you in it for the long haul? If not, stop humoring her and get out now.
2006-10-30 16:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off.. your not being a good friend because your talking sh*it about her on the site. if you like her don't worry about everybody else. just like you think she'a a little B**tch maybe you are 2.
try 2 see someone for who they are not for what you've heard.
2006-10-30 16:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. As her friend, if u think she is acting like a brat u should tell her. Maybe she doesn't notice.
2006-10-30 16:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by It'sMe23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should remain friends with her ONLY if you like her as a friend and not someone that you pity.
2006-10-30 16:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bobby S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think you should remain friends with her unless she treats you bad then let her know thats why she doesnt have friends because she treats people bad
2006-10-30 16:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes be her friend maybe some good will rub onto her. also let her know she should be thankful she has a mother.
2006-10-30 16:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it would be nice to stay with her, because she doesn't have friends and she'll be alone if you leave her,and it might her family that can make her feel worst.
2006-10-30 16:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by pinkygirl m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O yes! definitely yes. it will put you as angel of savor.
2006-10-30 16:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by KghC_thegreatest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋