I love this guy that doesn't want a gurlfriend right now but he likes me as more than a friend!But the thing is i've fallen 4 him!!!!
So wut do i do?
2006-10-30 07:56:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ask yourself...is he worth it that u can do anything for him???
2006-10-30 18:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by innocence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself enough to accept the love he has to offer as a friend. I don't know you, but I know this situation you speak of, been there too many times to discuss...it seems to be the only thing I ever run into....I like, love them....they only like, love me as a friend....forever the friend. It will destroy you and the friendship if you don't accept it as it is. It will consume you in a very self destructive way. You will get so much more out of it by loving it for what it is...which is a lot more than some have. Loving yourself enough to demand more for yourself is the only way!!!!
2006-10-30 16:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by shrm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say keep him as a friend and eventually he will see the good in you. Maybe the thing with his girlfriend won't work out and if it doesn't then you'll be there. Just give it time and eventually you may find its not worth it. Just keep living. Thats what I'm trying to do. And don't give up looking for someone else either. Good luck with everything.
2006-10-30 16:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I have loved someone so much that I would do just about anything for them...
What should you do? Ask him to explain why he dosn't want a girlfriend right now! maybe he's been burned in the past, or hes afraid of commitment. If he really wants you, just take it slow. Keep things at his pace & eventually you may get what you want.
2006-10-30 20:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by prepishippie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go on with your life, as much as it might be really hard, I've been in ur postion b 4 and whats to say that there is someone else for you out there and that will love u just the same??? You'll never know, thats why I say go on, you did ur part and thats all u can do!!! Take care and good luck
2006-10-30 16:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nicholas R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Sounds harsh... but thats reality. He doesn't want a girlfriend. There is not much you can do about that. Or possibly that was his nice way of saying he just doesn't want you. Either way it goes, your best bet would be to just let it go.
And no.... I've never loved anyone so much that I'd do "ANYTHING" for them. That leaves a little too much open.
2006-10-30 16:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by *karasi* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a couple of years ago i would have done anything for my g/f,I still will i guess-but things aren't like they used to be.Be true to yourself,don't get all into someone that don't want you like you want them~you will wind up hurt in the long run.And i am here to tell you it hurts bad.So do for yourself first,then maybe someone else.Just don't get all wrapped up into things that just seem too good to be true.
2006-10-30 16:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's up to you.. be his friend only, and try to maintain the friendship, or be more than a friend and don't expect more than that.... More than anything love and respect yourself, for who you are and the decisions you make... when you are confident in yourself, then nothing else matters
2006-10-30 16:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by Erika M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to walk away before you get hurt. It will suck for the first week or so, but trust me on this one. From my personal experience it is not good to feel like that for someone who does not have feelings for you in return.
2006-10-30 23:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy I was dating didn't want me as a girlfriend, but we'd get together and have the time of our lives. 5 years later we're in a commited relationship, but he now says he'll never get married. We'll see............
2006-10-30 16:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he only wants you to get laid. Respect yourself, control your love impulses and wait until he really wants to commit... it's the least you deserve.
2006-10-30 16:09:53 · answer #11 · answered by Setsuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋