be patient. If you do not see any changes by 16, I would go to the doctor. Everyone matures at a different age and stage. I understand your stress, especially from peer pressure. When I was 14, I was not showing signs, but few months later it came along, although I am still small in size compared to most men.
If you are really worried and causing stress, there is nothing wrong with asking your doctor. He can run some medical tests to see what is wrong, if anything.
Good luck! I hope you blossom soon, cause I know what you are going through.
2006-10-30 07:47:03
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answered by Midwest guy 4
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Haha he is probably not gay. I am just like him. He is just shy and nervous, which means he may like you alot but doesnt want to ruin it if he does anything wrong intimately. Look at him, does he look like a 15 year old? or a 12 year old? if he looks normal than he probably has hit puberty, just not all the stages, no one does till their 18 +. I'm 16 and i've all stages of puberty except hair growth, im completely bald in those places. I looked like 8 years old and was only 5 foot until i was about 15, when i shot up and everything sped. I know guys who only recently at 16 have shot up and grew facial hair out of nowhere, one day they were high voiced the next they came with a voice so deep it shook my ears. Time varies if he hasnt hit puberty, so it can be normal. Keep pushing and let him know you want to do stuff, and after a while when he gets more comfortable im sure he'll be confident.
2016-05-22 12:10:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't worry things will happen in its own time. Since you are a late starter you will continue to develop until 20 or so. Or you may go fast once you start. You need to be masturbating though. Masturbation is good for you and for your reproductive system and it might help boost things along. So if you can find time masturbate 1 to 2 times a day. It is okay and has no bad side affects. The average male adult penis is 5 inches in length so use that number as a guide to how you are developing down there. Be patient. And enjoy life.
2006-10-30 08:06:26
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answered by Geo 6
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Look at your male relatives--and ask some of them when they started developing. May be embarrassing to ask but most guys will readily help out another with serious info.
Some guys just mature much more rapidly than others--I started shaving daily when I was 13, best friend was barely shaving when he graduated from high school and I had a full beard and moustache. My brotherinlaw didn't hit puberty until he was about your age, was always the shortest and had no facial hair--natural blonde--and then grew a full foot in one year and he was the tallest guy in his class when he graduated.
2006-10-30 12:23:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Just try to relax and let nature take its course. It will grow for you and probably quite quickly. I feel your concern because I didn't go through puberty until I was 16, but I did go through it, and so will you.
Chow!!
2006-10-30 07:58:50
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answered by No one 7
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You should go see a doctor and have your hormone levels checked, it may be that your pituitary gland is not working right and you may need hormone therapy to jump start puberty
2006-10-30 07:39:25
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answered by me 5
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measure your penis. Some people do hit puberty and dont change around their penis. If your penis is bigger than 4 inches you probably have gone through puberty. Masturbate often. The more orgasms you have the faster the puberty proccess will go. Good luck.
2006-10-30 10:47:00
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answered by robertson_c92 2
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i wouldnt worry i started precming right when i turned 14 but i didnt ejaculate till i was 14 1/2 if i were you try masturebating hard and use lubricant. and i was only 5'4 at at that time
2006-10-30 09:20:52
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answered by jo 2
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You are a late bloomer! Relax and be patient everything will fall into place in due time!
2006-10-30 07:46:24
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answered by duke4172 3
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you should go see a doctor and see if you can get a hormone shot which will make you grow and start puberty
2006-10-30 11:29:09
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answered by Tim 4
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