2006-10-30 07:07:34 · 19 answers · asked by sexyshara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes - you can explore your sexuality with the one you trust most in the world your spouse!!
2006-10-30 07:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lets try this out, im a male i have no experience with women, i meet a girl she has no experience with men, my upbringing has been such that i have a lot of repressed sexual desires, so has my future partner, even if we are compatable in a loving sense it does not automatically follow that we will be compatable with intercourse.
I am a parent to eleven children and a biological father to five of those eleven as well as an adoptive parent, my partner is mother to five and parent to an adoptee, we have both had one relationship each, we both stuck with a partner for many years before meeting and both sets of children were in the late stages of early adulthood, my ex had a low libido, i have a high libido, we were never compatable in sex, in lust that was a different matter, i waited until i was married and i regret doing so, and im not saying you become a carefree sleep with anyone person, but if you a going to buy a car you test drive it first. and that statement is in agreement with my partner, you hopefully are going to spend the rest of your life with that person, you need all the info you can get, to help make the biggest committment of your life, regards LF
2006-10-30 07:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by lefang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the way God intended it.
It is human to have regrets either way- If you did wait, you may wonder what it could have been like with someone besides your spouse. If you did not wait, you will wonder what meaning was lost, and the closeness to that one special person- how much closer it could have been. Part of your soul is given, or taken, each time you give yourself to someone in that way. God did not intend for it to be casual. It is physical and spiritual at the same time. I hope you value yourself and do the right thing.
2006-10-30 07:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by catarina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the old saying that it's a gift you can only give once. I have never been promiscuous and have only had four lovers in 41 years (all of whom were long-term). I do wish that I could give that gift to my current lover though. I would love to give him the knowledge that I waited for him specially. I'm trying to impart that thought to my daughters, especially now with all of the health reasons to wait. The most important thing is to protect your heart and women tend to fall in "love" with men they sleep with.
2006-10-30 07:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your celibacy is for religious purposes, then yes, it is a good thing. However, if that is not the reason, I do not believe it is a good choice. First of all, you will be a bit clueless on your wedding night. Second, later in the marriage, you may have a desire to see what other people are like in bed. Your curiosity could destroy your marriage.
2006-10-30 07:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes . Not having sex before marriage protects you from contracting any STDs or getting unwanted pregnancy. It will make your single life a whole lot simpler and happier.
2006-10-30 21:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the best thing you can do! Only being with one person lets people see how careful you are and its shows so much responsibility.
2006-10-30 07:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Carmen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Always! I wish i would have waited. Sex makes everything more complicated before you are married, hell even after you are married. You can just know the person you are with for their love for you and make them wait to lust after you. Trust me, after you are married you wish your spouse lusted after you.
2006-10-30 07:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by micah z 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is still a very good thing.
2006-10-30 07:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by kitcat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes live with dignity not without and it's for the one that you love most in your life and that if one can keep to that be proud of yourself!
2006-10-30 07:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋