Just wondering what your initial reaction would be to that..
I was confused and ignored it.. Is this something I need to worry about?
2006-10-30 06:44:23 · 23 answers · asked by RUNINTLKT 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes this is something you need to worry about.
You are right to ignore her . She gets her rush from flirting with married men.
Remember....if she ever cheats with you, she will cheat on your. Don't ever let her in to your life.
She seems dilusional. Don't risk your own marriage.
It sounds like this woman could go to any extent -- so don't ever put yourself alone with her or give any one reason to think you might be with her. She sounds like she could really mess your life up.
2006-10-30 06:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly is sex the only thing you men every think about? Apparently a woman can not have a conversation with you without THAT being the first thing to come into you mind. Being a soul-mate doesn't have to be anything at all about sex. Having said that, it depends on the non-verbal language that came with it. In any event, it is nothing you need to worry about since you are faithful and will remain faithful to your wife!
2006-10-30 15:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being one's "soulmate" doesn't have anything to do with romance or sex, etc. It means that you are "on the same level", you mirror her in a sense. A soulmate is someone who knows how you feel even before you are aware of it yourself. They know your thoughts without you having to speak them. Too often people confuse "soulmate" to mean something romantic or sexual and they wind up disappointed. Maybe what she meant is that you know her so well. If you REALLY want to know what she meant you would have to ASK her.
2006-10-30 14:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I being married would remind her that we were both married and she shouldnt think of me other than just a friend. Sould mate is something that is very very serious especially coming from a woman. I would make sure you were never alone with her by yourselves.
2006-10-30 15:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by freefinally101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are happily married too your soulmate!! And that if she isn't then that's her problem, not yours..No need too worry, just tell her too get a life..but it won't be a life with you!!
2006-10-30 14:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing by ignoring her. She may be unhappy in her marrage and your personality fit what is lacking. She needs therapy and needs to tell her man what is missing. Maybe there isn't enough communication in that relationship for her.
2006-10-30 14:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno. These broads today use the term soulmate too much. It's the guy equivalent of buying another guy a beer. It simply means you're not an azzhole and I don't mind sitting near you.
Soulmate schmolmate..... now if she stuck her hand down your pants, come back and write.
2006-10-30 15:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Use another Nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about , she more than likely has good line and feeding it to you. What are doing asking this question, excuse me, I thought you had wife at home, Shame on You.
2006-10-30 14:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing says that you necessarily have to be married to your soulmate.
2006-10-30 14:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by Shayna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe that either of you should be even be discussing such things? Unless you want to dissolve your marriage - and hers, too - I'd suggest safer topics...and, prehaps, more distance.
2006-10-30 14:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋