Is something wrong with me or is this normal for some people? It seems like I almost do, but it never happens? Why?
2006-10-30 06:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by wendy 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Maybe you're partner(s) just haven't been hitting the spot quite right! It's normal to not have an orgasm every single time you have sex, almost no women actually do, but to have never had one at all? That's cause for concern, and believe me, when you have one, there's no mistaking it--did I or didn't I?--believe me, you'll KNOW! So, my suggestion is to get yourself a toy and figure out what sets you off on your own, that way you'll know exactly what your partner needs to do and you can guide him in that direction during your next "encounter." Masturbation is healthy, and heck, if you don't even know what you're body needs to orgasm, how the hell do you think your partner's gonna know! If you're a first-timer, start with a toy that's very simple--no vibrating or strange attachments--to ease yourself into the idea. And don't forget to set the mood for yourself before you start, it will definitely help ease any tension between you and your toy. :)
2006-10-30 06:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by superstar_81882 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 27 and I never had an orgasm during sex until I was 26. I could always get myself off, but never during sex. I met my boyfriend 11 months ago and all of a sudden I started having them. It's like he hits me in the right spot. And we are really in love. I don't know if it's the feelings or the shape of his manhood that gets me off. But like you, I was literally trying to force myself to have an orgasm during sex. I would try to visualize dirty stuff, but I guess eventually you will find the man that takes you there...
2006-10-30 06:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. Most women don't climax by just having intercourse. If you feel as if you are almost there, then you are almost there and you could give yourself a hand to get yourself over that threshold, if you get what I mean. You could also try different positions than the ones you normally do and see if that makes any difference for you. Good luck.
2006-10-30 06:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you've watched Oprah or Talk Sex w/ Sue but it is actually normal. Every female is different when it comes to this. Have you ever tried figureing out yourself what would work, what feels good. My advise is to first try with just you alone, add some toys if need to, it might actually might help inhance and stimulate. Check out this: http://talksexwithsue.com/
2006-10-30 06:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by lovinglife428 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. YOu just need to relax and try to figure it out on your own. It is harder for some people than it is for others. The key is to relax, though....
2006-10-30 06:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just didn't meet the right guy under the right circumstances.try to aboard different moods.
2006-10-30 06:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Riot! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women dont during intercourse, oral sex is where its at! or you could use your finger during intercourse.
2006-10-30 07:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by i_like_bears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋