2006-10-30 06:25:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
how old is your brother? If he's young, then I wouldn't worry about it. If your father starts doing it, then definitely tell your mom.
2006-10-30 06:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
most boys x-dress at some time in there lives
weather it is to see what there are missing out on
your bother may just be trying it on and this maybe the first and last time he will ever do so
but if it is not you should help him
telling your mother should be left to him
unless he asks you to do it for him
you should be supportive of your bother if he is a crossdrsser
as it is not easy
the main reason boys crossdress it because it is a forbidon thing for them to do
the other main reason is he may not feel lie he is a boy
other words he may have gender isuses
if your brother has any feelings towards crossdressing
and you tell on him he will only feel hurt and anger towards you if your mum takes it away from him
help your brother if you want to but let him tell your mother that way he will still love you as a sister
2006-10-30 13:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep it between yourselves. Long after your parents are dead and gone, you and your brother will continue, in an ideal world, to get along well and enjoy each other's company. It's not worth the possibility of permanently putting a rift between you. As a crossdresser myself, I can vouch for the wisdom of this more cautious and understanding approach. My own sister chose to facilitate my crossdressing urges rather rather divulging the secret. She did, of course, put a small price on it -- in exchange for the freedom to wear her things I had to be her servant. Call it blackmail, but it definitely had its advantages. She taught me how to shop like a girl -- where to go, what to buy, how to coordinate. As I got older, I was able to utilize this knowledge to build my own collection of women's clothes. Today I dress full-time, and my sister is my best friend.
2006-10-30 09:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Viki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just play it down like it is no big deal. Just act like "So what? What is business is it of yours??" Or perhaps if you think your mother is going to freak out you could make an excuse that you and some friends were going to play a practical joke on someone by dressing up as girls and you wanted to see if the clothes in the house fit you? Personally, I don't think it is that big of a deal and if my son were to do it I wouldn't think a whole lot of it.
2016-05-22 12:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Lots of boys, whether they are gay or straight, experiment with cross-dressing. Telling your mom will only cause embarrassment for your brother and stress for your mom. You might be surprised at the number of completely straight grown men who have tried on their mom's or sister's clothes when they were younger. Just keep your brother's secret to yourself.
2006-10-30 06:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by quickgirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
on one hand i would say yes. but in terms of the real world. absolutely no way. this is based on my own experiences as a teenager. my mom made me go to school dressed as a girl for a month after my brother told on me and she found me dressed in her bra and panties one day when she came home from work.
2006-10-30 09:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by newmichelle1959 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, Do not tell her.
Talk to him, tell him if you do not want him wearing your things.
Tell him it stretches them out of shape or makes them dirty.
But talk to him, ask nice questions, and let him know he can talk to you.
He is probably just curios. You could help him a lot at finding himself. I does not mean he is a cross dresser or gay, hi might just like the way it makes him feel.
2006-10-30 07:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by temotatu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about it, first. find out why.
also, is your mom phobic about these issues? Will it be a family joke or will your brother's life become a living nightmare?
2006-10-30 06:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it depends on how old he is...if he is little or younger than u its okay, but if he s a teenager maybe u should tell ur mom so that she can do something about it, but dont worry
2006-10-30 06:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
help your brother out. he may be totally innocent here and just wishing to explore is all. do not rat on him until you have a serious converation about it all first.
2006-10-30 10:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋