i am sick of being scared to e bold bc i always miss out on the fun things in life...i wanna have fun and just let loose and be happy for once!!! i'm not sayin i dont like my life...but i could use a little more...something...should i abandon my staight forward life and become the party grrl everyone loves???? i would finally be truly happy for once in my life...or should i always follow the rules and be perfect???
2006-10-30 06:21:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do what makes you happy.
If you're not letting loose because you're giving in to societal demands, then get over it! I did what society expected by getting married and having kids--I don't regret that at all, but it wasn't ME. Now that I'm finally me, a gay man, I find that true happiness is easier to find simply because I'm doing what I choose to do, not what everyone else thinks is right for me.
2006-10-30 06:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to be true to yourself. Consider why you are really unhappy. It sounds like you don't have a positive self image.
Becoming something else isn't the answer. You will be the same inside.
I'm very liberal, and sometimes that is more difficult. I took the fun path when I was younger, and have paid for it dearly.
I say a healthy balance is the answer. You don't necessarily want to be a good girl, but nobody takes the bad ones seriously.
2006-10-30 06:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by B Low 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"should i abandon my straight forward life and become the party girl everyone loves???? "
If you just want to be someone "everyone loves" then live with abandon.
It's my opinion that integrity and self esteem are more important than being liked or loved by everyone. If you love yourself I can guarantee other will gravitate to you. Then you can "abandon" your self consciousness.
Good Luck...
2006-10-30 06:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by King 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, be friendly, be kind, stay lovely as you are. Changing to a party girl is dangerous and stupid,it will not bring you happiness. Meet with other girls like yourself. Arrange a sleep out with some of them and have fun.
2006-10-30 06:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by spatz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Do what you love. Anything to make you happy. Happiness is the key to a long life.
2006-10-30 06:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Chelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 16:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling empty now being the 'party girl' will not fulfill you. After the party is over you will be left feeling empty and alone.
Think long and hard at what is REALLY missing in your life. Pray on it.
2006-10-30 06:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noone is perfect for that matter and i'm sure that ur life ain't that bad u just need a lil fun it won hurt to have a lil fun it's fine a ur fine so please have fun and nobody is perfect u ain't the only one so jus be urself but also have a lil fun..kk God Bless!!!
2006-10-30 06:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in order to be happy one should just go with the flow of people that surounds you. So thats why you shoud keep balance of who you wana be and who you don't wana be. And most important now yourself becuse, if you dont know yourself you are going to faind yourself lost.
2006-10-30 06:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy. Who cares what others think. It's your life!!
2006-10-30 06:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by lanalicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋