Being a virgin nowadays is very rare. You're a very unique person. If I had to do all over again, I would have stayed one until the day that I got married. That is something that you can give to your husband that is very special. It can only be given away once and one time only.
I do think it is cool. But do believe if that is what you want to do, then by all means remain one until that special day.
2006-10-30 05:36:11
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answered by whenwhalesfly 5
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When talking about keeping or losing your virginity, "cool" is certainly not the word to use. This is much more important than following a trend. If you keep your virginity, you do it becaue you believe it is right.
My fiance and I are both virgins. We both find each other very sexy, but we are waiting till we get married. We believe this is the right thing to do. We are both Christian and we both believe this is a big sin we shouldn't be doing.
2006-10-30 05:36:41
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answered by Princess of Egypt 5
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Who cares if people think it's cool? It's yer decision weather yer gonna have sex or not, & if you want to wait til yer married to do that, then that's yer choice & it's perfectly fine! I'm all for waiting til marriage if that's what you wanna do. It's better to wait than to be a dirty whore who'll do anything on 2 legs anyway.... Or just doin some random person just so people think yer cool... Or to say that yer not a virgin when really you are. That stuff is just stupid!! I would have way less respect for someone who did any of that stuff than I would for someone who's decided to wait. I'll admit to anyone anywhere anytime that I am a virgin & that's my choice.
I don't necessarily think I need to wait til I'm married, I just have to wait to find someone who I trust & love enough to give that up to them. I have major trust issues anyway, so I've just never met someone who I liked or trusted enough.
2006-10-30 05:41:13
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answered by BurningBunnyEX 3
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I'm a virgin, considerably cool, so I'd say, remaining a virgin is cool in these days.
2006-10-30 05:34:52
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answered by K 6
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its not about being cool its doing what you feel like. but i had an options a few years back i'd remain a virgin. :O
2006-10-30 05:32:29
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answered by Anonymous
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remaining a virgin until you find the right person is so much worth it because then you have the ability to filter out the jerks.
if guys can't wait for you, then it lets you know that they're not the right one to do it with.
2006-10-30 05:35:31
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answered by choosinghappiness 5
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Why are you so worried about peer pressure and the opinions of others? When you get older, you will find it funny that the people you thought had such an impact on your life, you never see the majority of them again. Remain true to yourself.
2006-10-30 05:33:36
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answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5
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i think it's cool that you are doing what you believe is right. do whatever makes you happy. my best friend is almost 21 and a virgin. my boyfriend was 22 when he lost his virginity. so yea, doing what you think is best is cool.
2006-10-30 05:33:28
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answered by dixiegirl687 5
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it seams unrealistic to spend your life with someone not knowing what your getting into but waiting till your an adult i think is responsible and "cool" i waited till i was 18 and was a lot happier with my first time then my friends who thought everyone was doing it they all have horrible stories some were as young as 13 some ended up with kids. i think it's to big of a thing to rush into before your an adult legally and mentally.
2006-10-30 05:39:07
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answered by JoJo 2
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To a point, yes. But that virgin on Real World was annoying.
2006-10-30 05:31:34
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answered by Tony M 7
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