I'm single.. got to know a married gal when she was away from her husband.. we both were good friends for 3 months and we cared for each other a lot.. now she has gone back to her husband.. we both feel that we are emotionally attached and are in love with each other..
we both want to be together.. but whenever we discussed indirectly , she said leave it to fate.. I told her that i will accept watever decision she takes.. she always say dont decide.. leave it to fate.. now i dont know what to do.. whether i should move on or wait for her or talk to her directly..
2006-10-30 05:22:29 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You was her 3 months warming mat and now she's gone back to the one who she felt strongly about...Remember that she was only separated not divorced, so you must now move on....Find a single woman. That way you won't have this problem.
2006-10-30 05:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're a little dense aren't you.
She chose her husband and you are the back up.
Take her advise. Trust in fate. So date and get married and when the time is right say when you're both 85 you will meet at the old age home and start where you left off.
Stop waiting and live your life.
2006-10-30 06:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave it to fate means she has gone on with her life and so should you. If you two are brought back to each other later in life (under the right circumstances) then fine. But if she really wanted to be with you she would have never gone back to her husband.
2006-10-30 05:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by From the "ATL"! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no bright future for a love triangle. Being in love means the total commitment of only two people who are in love. Having a third party has always given heartaches and trouble. Since they are married, it is best for you to move on and find your own partner. I am sure your Miss right is somewhere along the road.
2006-10-30 06:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has asked you to leave everything to fate. Fate has returned her to her husband after a brief interlude with you. You must be extremely stupid if you still thought that she wanted to desert her husband and come to live with you. Move on. And don't try to break families.
2006-10-30 05:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not taught well by your parents.You should not talk to a married women looking that her husband is out somewhere.If you dare to do that let her husband know the fact first
You are some coward kind of person who can't attract unmarried girls and looking towards a married women.
WHO has already took oath while marrying to god and her elder not to see any other man except her husband.
What I want to tell you , you bugger suppose your sister or mother or your own wife do same thing will you prefer to put same question?
2006-10-30 05:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by pankaj s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"leave it to fate," what BS. Means she's too scared or unsure to make a decision, or is waiting to get caught because she feels guilty and thinks she deserves to be punished for her infidelity.
You're not doing either of you a favor by letting her waffle. It's dishonorable and dishonest - the two of you can either end your relationship or she can be honest and get a divorce. Even if you love her, you should not have to sell your dignity. Tell her to make a choice - if she won't, then you have to walk away.
"There is fate, but it only takes you so far, because once you're there its up to you to make it happen." - Can't Hardly Wait
"I could not love thee, dear, so much, loved I not honor more." - Richard Lovelace
2006-10-30 05:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on...if she were truly in love with you she would NOT have returned to her husband..."leaving it to fate" is her way of not facing reality. Don't let her string you along. She chose her marriage and husband...now you need to chose whether or not you want to wait on "fate"...or go out there and live YOUR life to the fullest
2006-10-30 05:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. It sounds like she likes the idea of having you on the side, but has no plans of leaving her husband. You also need to consider the fact that you are attempting to destroy a family. You should break contact with her, and find someone who is not yet taken.
2006-10-30 05:27:16 · answer #9 · answered by Bill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have allowed yourself to fall in love with a married person -- mistake on your part. If you do not wish to fall in love with someone who is influx of a marriage and may possibly return to that marriage, then do not open the door of opportunity for it to happen. You knocked on that door -- now it is time to close that door. Use your time together, and now apart, as a learning experience to not get involved with a person that is married. It doesn't work out in the long run.
2006-10-30 05:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by JB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a clue........ SHE IS MARRIED if you cant get any single play then you have a hand. Leave the married people alone. You wouldnt like it if your girl was bangin some other dude. So leave this cats girl alone. One day your gonna mess with the wrong girl and then you might end up regretting it. Guys like me take care of that stuff..........
2006-10-30 05:27:16 · answer #11 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋