My bf and i have a tirbulent relationship sometimes breaking up three times in one week over piety arguments over anything.This has been going on for a year the getting back together and breaking up all the time. Jealousy attacks on both sides and bad argument where things get thrown.We are both in college which does not help.We are both polar opposites me the good girl, with good grades who is shy, but likes to let loose sometimes when with friends. Him the bad boy who is smart but cuts class and passes by skin of his teeth is very outgoing and thinks he nows everything!We are both stubborn and he likes to mess with me to get me mad and both of us has a temper.
2006-10-30 05:10:07 · 15 answers · asked by Tiffancy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
At end of the day we end up together in bed having makeup sex but i am kind of getting tiered of this is this normal?I love him but he drives me insane!
2006-10-30 05:10:53 · update #1
Some people are happy living like this and seek this type of relationship out. If you are not happy, end the relationship. Nobody should be throwing things at each other, sounds like it could escalate to more violent fighting.
2006-10-30 05:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Swirlgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it...this is an unhealthy relationship! A relationship should bring out the best in you not make you angry all the time. I'd personally rather be alone than to be in a bad relationship. You should be with someone that you get along with and share common goals with. This relationship isn't going anywhere with you 2 arguing and breaking up 3 times a week. Sounds like way too much trouble, you should be having fun.
2006-10-30 05:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, doesn't sound too healthy. Jealousy is poison to a relationship. If you really want this relationship to last your both going to have to work your asses off to make it work. Go see a counseler and talk about things you both could do. If you're really sick of it then you should leave. If you aren't ready to leave or you don't know if it's the right decision...it's okay. You will know when it's time to leave and there won't be a doubt in your mind. Until then, stop with the break up games because it obviously isn't doing the situation any good.
2006-10-30 05:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal but you have accepted it and made it normal in your life. Your at the age where you should be considering if the person you are with is marriage mtl. (Assuming you want to be married one day) Obviously he is not. It seems like you two bring out the worst in each other. Know how to push each others hot buttons. This isn't what you want for a lifestyle. What you want is someone to do life with. Someone who will be there at the end of a bad day. You need peace in your life. I think you should reconsider this relationship.
2006-10-30 05:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like much fun to me. You need to find someone who can spend more than three days with you before getting so pissed that he "breaks up with you". Of course it sounds like you are doing the same to him. Time to grow up and move on.
2006-10-30 05:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by troythom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT normal. You don't need all this drama and stress when you should be focusing on SCHOOL and your CAREER.
There are many other fish in the sea, and you don't need all this BS. Break up with him once and for all. If you're only in it for the make-up sex, believe me sweetie, there are other men out there...
2006-10-30 05:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Love.
2006-10-30 05:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How many times are you going to ask this question? You are both too immature to even think f being in a relationsip w/ eachother.
2006-10-30 05:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very unhealthy...imagine if you were married to him and had kids! He sounds very immature. Unless you want to spend the rest of your life raising this adult "child"...you should end it, and seek out someone more compatible
2006-10-30 05:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer this question and you will have your answer Do you want to go through this for the rest of your life?
2006-10-30 05:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by The Druid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋