i didnt bleed and now i am more than a little confused. it was my first time, we where safe, and both clean. and i know we did it right, i just wanted to know if this has ever happened to anyone else?
2006-10-30 05:03:35 · 20 answers · asked by Claire 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
some women don't, some will also maybe bleed the second or third time depending. some women have already broken their hymen long before sex...some are never born with them....some have ones that stretch out of the way...and yes it has happened to other people that they dont bleed the first time...i know several girls this has happened too. think of your self as lucky no gross mess to clean up.
2006-10-30 09:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a virgin, and haven't experienced it yet, but I have been told by many friends different stories of their first times. Not all of them bled, in fact their hymen was broken earlier on in life from bike riding or whatever, and it happened that way. Hymens are so fragile that they can break at any time, and then there will be spotting in the underpants, kind of mimicing a small period or something. There is a possibility it was broken some way else, and you dont have to worry. Not everyone bleeds during their first sex, it's more likely for the hymen to be broken from something else.
2006-10-30 05:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone Bleeds on there first time of having sex. I Didn't Bleed until like the Third time....But we did it right and it did hurt me BUT that doesnt mean you bleed it all depends on your body. In other words YOUR Fine....But Have it Safe sex or dont have sex at all!!!
2006-10-30 05:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by babigurl_1412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely normal honey!
Many women do not bleed the first time they have sexual intercourse. A few females are born with their hymen already broken. Other girls have theirs broken from wearing tampons or playing sports. For girls with intact hymens, sometimes the tear is so slight that the amount of bleeding is minimal -- it's not like a gusher!
So relax, not every girl bleeds her first time and it's perfectly normal.
2006-10-30 05:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is Normal as Many of them do Not Bleed and Nothing to Worry
2006-10-30 05:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're OK!
Something as simple as riding your bike and crashing down hard in the seat when you were a kid can cause this area to break as well as playing in a tree and slipping and crashing hard on a branch in that area. Therefore you will not bleed on the first time because it's already been broken.
My OB/GYN gave me this info. Hope it helps.
2006-10-30 05:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had prior injury to your Hymen you would not bleed. The bleeding is caused when the Hymen is torn and virginity is lost. Horse back riding and rigorous sports can cause someone to tear their Hymen early. Just hope you used protection bleeding is not a bonus
2006-10-30 05:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your okay not everyone bleeds their first time,your one of the lucky ones
2006-10-30 05:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by pattibcacl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I didnt bleed either. Some people just dont.
2006-10-30 05:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by curiousgeorge 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not everyone bleeds their first time! it just depends on how small you are, how big the guy is, how much it make be stretched out from other things besides sex (tampons, horseback riding, forplay activites) etc. its not like you HAVE to bleed or esle, its actually good that you didnt! means less trauma on your body!
2006-10-30 05:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋