he is not clingy to me but to my friend
she does not what to hert him and he has a thing for her
2006-10-30 04:11:14 · 17 answers · asked by Tynan B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The truth is, no matter how she does it, he will get hurt. If he does care so strongly, they is never a good way to say,"I do not want to date you." Same for saying that she needs her space. But basicly saying, "Listen (person), I like you. Your a nice guy, and a good friend. But I need some space, and I do not want to hurt you. I just want to be friends, and thats all." Thats the best way to do it, but they will in the end still get hurt. Better hurt nicely now, than bad later.
2006-10-30 04:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by joseph c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she's putting out the wrong vibe out? Has she made it clear that she only appreciates him as a friend and not as anything else? Sometimes the best way to get rid of clinginess is to not be receptive to it. For instance, if he repeatedly calls, don't pick up every single time and when he does, just politely ask him to stop doing that. And saying NO to him when he wants to follow does not hurt him. He needs to realize that she needs some space and it should be said in that way. Just be fair and make sure that she isn't leading him on in any way. Make that point clear first. If these attempts don't work, then she needs to just be firm about what she wants from him and make sure she does what she can to not enable him from continuing to cling to her.
2006-10-30 04:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jacqueline S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a problem, now days. They have those little sheets you just put in the dryer and they eleminate the "cling". We didn't have those things in the old days and times were really tough!
2006-10-30 04:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt the other party, hurt yourself instead, and end up hurting the other party even more, coz its like giving false hope. Short pain better then long festering pain, heed my advise and do what is good.
2006-10-30 04:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could consult along with her approximately it! Say "you have been performing genuine clingy recently! you haven't any longer enable me attempt to make different acquaintances, and you realize how i like one in each of those acquaintances! ought to you please in simple terms supply up clinging! i'm unlikely to enable your chum slip slide because of the fact of persons!" Be very advantageous! i think of she in simple terms is afraid to lose you! desire I helped!
2016-10-21 00:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to do this is to sit them down and be straight with them, they'll never get the point any other way. Best to direct and get it over with.
2006-10-30 04:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst tell her to tell him dat she found out by an unknown sorce dat he lykz her and she only seez him az a friend and to back off a lil bit!
it might be a lil harsh but tell her to tell him no hard feelings and they could still be friendz!!!
2006-10-30 04:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jeni and dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is going to have to address the issue with him. You can try to tell him but I think it would be better coming from him.
2006-10-30 04:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just have to be honest u try your best not to hurt feelings but sometimes it is necessary to get the point across!...I think she just needs to tell him,because he must not be able see for himself that she isn't interested!
2006-10-30 04:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him get hurt, he needs to grow a thicker skin. It's part of growing up.
2006-10-30 04:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋