I'm divorced with 4 kids. They live with my ex due to his parents bought out the judge and lawyer. My eldest moved in with me in June of this year and has moved back to her fathers for the time being. My room mate is part of the reason she has moved back. I want to know now that I am alone again, should I move back to the town they're in to be closer and start my life anew?Or do I stay where I'm at? Will I beable finacially to afford this kind of move. My job will transfer, but, I'll have to get another just to make ends meet. I don't know what I should do, I want to be closer to my kids, but, yet I like the small town I live in now. Please help me to decied. What do you predict my future hold in store for me?
2006-10-30 04:02:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look, none of us have crystal balls or can see the future. Do what you have to to be near your children regardless of the difficulty or cost.
You may not be in the same home, but at least you can be involved in their lives. Examples of this would be school events and sport events. Not to mention that a young girl needs her mother in many ways as she matures. (not that boys don't) Make sure your personal love life doesn't interfere or take away from every minute of time you can spend with the children.
As for your future, that is up to you. Good luck with your decision.
2006-10-30 04:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say this.
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-30 12:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's like asking how much life do you have left to accomplish what you want. If you have to work 10 jobs to support your kids then do it. You have the advantage cause you can accomplish what you choose to.
2006-10-30 12:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by nfgatcer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer. Move closer to your kids!!! Regardless of how many jobs you have to get move closer to them and be their mother!
2006-10-30 12:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋