is it possible to love a person for more than a decade and not be able to tell her / him. Professionals pls?

Question

is it some kind of Pshychological problem

Answer 1

It's called the law of deminishing returns. At first when you fall in love, amphetamine-like chemicals are produced by the brain. Pleasure centers are stimulated and you are moativated to take action. However, as time goes on, your brain builds tollerance to these chemicals. Moativation dies down. You don't take action. You get off the pot.