I have known this girl for many years..when I first met her she was a total *****..but we started to hang out because she got married to my husbands good friend.Now we have to be neighbors(military).She can't drive because she got her license taken away,so I taxi her *** around ALL the time.I even sit and wait in my car while she runs errands.Every once in a while she says thanks, and never offers gas money.I sometimes change the time I leave my house to help fit her needs,just because I can.She has this kind of blunt, sassy attitude and I am more outgoing/friendly to everyone.But lately she has started to snap at me.The other day I wanted to hang out for an extra 20 min.or so to talk to my other friends and she said she was tired and DEMANDed that I take her home right then.I made her wait for ONCE and she chose not to say one word to me all the way home.Since then she has been giving me the cold shoulder.But I just KNOW she will come crawling over her next time she needs something.
2006-10-30 03:26:43 · 18 answers · asked by Courtney 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ditch the b|tch! she is just going to get worse and she isn't worth having around if she is acting like that. SHe obviously has no respect for you....You gain more than you lose when you lose crappy friends!!
2006-10-30 04:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 02:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by huenke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl sounds like a real *****! Think about this..... what in the world has she ever done for you? Nothing! She is just using you for her own personal taxi service. No gas money? Tell her you cant afford to pay for all this gas. If she says anything tell her she gets nothing and deserves less.
2006-10-30 03:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, she sounds like she is just using you for a ride all the time. Considering the fact that you do it all the time, I think she is seeing how far she can push you and take advantage of you. Just stop being so nice all the time and bring the b**** in yourself. I tell one of my friends that all the time. Watch out too, she might get real evil on you. Just expect it.
2006-10-30 06:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by CHRISSY K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if she thinks the world revolves around her.
make her fit into your schedule and stop going out of the way for her. she's the beggar not you. next time she wants a ride and if you were going that way anyhow then let her know you may stop and visit some friends. if she doesn't want to tag along you can offer to drop her at a bus stop or she can call a cab.
you don't owe her anything, but it sounds as if she treats you as if you do.
2006-10-30 05:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even use the word "friend" for her. She seems to be using you and you don't get anything out of it. It might be hard to dump her since you are neighbors but you definitely need to set some boundaries/ground rules. She needs to give you gas money for driving her around and be more respectful of your time.
2006-10-30 03:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone ever said you had to drive her sorry *** around, so stop doing it, it is not YOUR RESPONSIBILITY it is her HUSBANDS, maybe she should learn to walk or to take a bus maybe a taxi that way she has to pay for her errands.. STAND up for yourself and stop taking her umgrateful butt anywhere. No matter how much she begs don't give in she is using you
2006-10-30 03:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you don't want to be friends anymore. She is taking advantage of you in every way shape and form. Just tell her you are a total ***** and I am sick and tired of chauffeuring you around everywhere and taking advantage of me. I would not take this lying down. She is not a true friend. Your husband and her husband can still be friends even if you do this.
2006-10-30 04:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by turnertot1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't why you call her a friend. a friend would be grateful for what you are doing for her. she just needs a taxi service and that should not be YOU - at least taxi services get paid for their services - you aren't even getting the pleasure of her company, never mind money or at the very least a thank you.
2006-10-30 03:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her ungratefull, rude butt on the pavement. That's really rude and she knows better. On top of that, you deserve someone who's going to (at the very least) respect you.
2006-10-30 03:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by scoutredneckfluffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋