this boy likes me a whole lot. he lies on me and tells people things that are not true. I asked him if what people say he says about me is true but he denied saying thins about me. i know he is lying.
2006-10-30 03:05:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
what should i do? I haven't even really talked to the boy
2006-10-30 03:08:16 · update #1
If this is happening at school, then talk to a teacher or a counselor. They should be able to help you. Good luck.
2006-10-30 03:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Army Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a stalker then i feel truly sorry for you - i had one for a few years, as an adult, not a teen & even then it was horrorific. I ended up taking the man to court & even then he didnt truely leave me alone, he just stayed withing the boundarys of the law so that he wouldnt get arrested. Eventually i did the only thing left to do - i moved away, but not before going through a great depression & hiding in my home etc...
Since you are attending school you will need to talk to a counseller & the principle & depending on how far this has gone you should also insist on police being involved - the threat of police may make the principle takes this seriously as oftentimes they do not take it seriously at all.
Stalking is finally being treated as a genuine crime due the the fact that many stalkers will eventually harm their victim although it is still hard to prove. Keep records of calls, any interaction & any times he follows you & especially any threats. Be sure to never give him any encouragement - ask him, in company, once & once only, to leave you alone & then ignore him regardless of what he does as any reaction from you he will see as encouragement.
Good luck
2006-10-30 03:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalking? Lying? You need to tell an adult or a teacher, counselor, etc. if you don't do so, he'll keep doing it and you'll probably be doomed forever. It's better to tell earlier than later right?
2006-10-30 06:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by huffypuffle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that you don't like him that much and to stop telling untruthful stuff and tell him that tell some one cause that's just wrong and very unethical and he needs to stop and try to agnore him and if he keeps just tell him that you have a boyfriend that gets very jealous if you are around guys that he doesnt know and just get a friend to fake your bf for a while until he stops and i can help you find a guy to do that for you.
2006-10-30 03:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by hestheloveofmylife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start following him around and calling his phone an don't talk. Act generally annoying, pretend like your not following him an nothings wrong.
2006-10-30 03:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically that is not sumone bein a stalker!! a stalker is someone who follows you places like to ur house and stuff!! what he is doin is just tellin lies and ruing your reputation!! so i suggest you look up words before you use them!!
2006-10-30 13:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by in love and dont care who knows! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off thats not a talker thats just an asshole nd you should fight fire with fire talk about him...or if you have brothers let them take care of him......but you could just ignore the whole situation,, if you know it not rue then dont pay it any attention...kill him with kindness
2006-11-01 01:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by isydnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, also let a counsler at school know. They will be able to help you out.
2006-10-30 06:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the teacher and principal and tell your parents. If he keeps it up, just keep complaining to the principal, they should handle it.
2006-10-30 04:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a teacher or principal or tell your parents.
2006-10-30 03:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋