im just curious to know, because i realized one thing about my bf and i, im the type who feels good helping others and is always in search of people who need help, (i have no idea why iam like that) while my bf isn't. the thing is he isnt at all a bad guy, he donates money every year to the church, if you invite him to go to some charity thing, he'll happily go, but i notice, he wont do things for others unless someone holds his hand and takes him to do it.
i asked him just today (he just saw a huge car accident occur today, 1 dead) and i asked him out of the blues, if that car you saw today began fire and the man who died today was inside the car and that instant you didnt know whether he was dead or not, would you have done? he stood silent and responded, i would have backed up, he told me it was too risky...
for me, in my natural instinct, i would have ran to car and try to save the guy. i was surprised mybf said that, but in character he is a sweet guy, normal like you and i
2006-10-30 02:56:00 · 1 answers · asked by sueet2b 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
so my question is, why do some people feel good helping others while other people dont really even when they arent bad people at all?
2006-10-30 02:56:47 · update #1
the difference is your make-up. Neither is wrong. Your boundries extend pass his. The good of this is that one of you may go too far and be taken advantage of if not for the other who is more reserved.
2006-10-30 03:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by maybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋