I have been married for 8 years my husband and i have a few children so when it comes to romance it has to happen after 8 at night when we are both about to die from hard days work.
Anyway things have gotton to be routine and i really want to wow him something different and i'm not talking buying new underwear or nightie i want to do something that will make hime think WOW.
it got to be something thats not going to last all night and something that wont wake my kids up.
Thanks for your help i look forward to your ideas.
2006-10-30 02:17:11 · 22 answers · asked by La diva R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to the library....get out the 'joy of sex' and try some new positions.. get some toys...anything different. Can you not get a sitter and go out...nice walk in a nice dark park somewhere..drop to the floor and give him a nice BJ? That would blow his mind. Sex does get routine and boredom sets in..its a constant struggle..bedroom sex is soooooooooooooooo boring!! Try the basement..the back deck....the laudry room anywhere BUT the bedroom...good luck!!
2006-10-30 02:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am also married and have kids. My husband and i fell into the "routine" rut and I realized that the spice was sizzling out of my marriage. I also went a step further than looking at my marriage and realized that I had lost myself in being "Mommy" and "Wife"....so, i decided to do something that would spice up not only my marriage but myself too.
Now, please keep in mind that I consider myself to be a "good christian" woman and am not one of these sleazy types.....That being said....I bought the Sheila Kelly dancing video (it teaches you how to strip and dance like a stripper, for exercise and to release your inner vixen)
It was the best thing I could have ever done for my marriage and for my body. My husband was truly WOWED when I surprised him with my new moves. I had been secretly practicing while my oldest was doing homework and my little one was watching sponge bob.
Now, I get a workout every night AND my husbands passions are definitely perked up! No more routine for us :) Doing the excersizes and being more "active" has also boosted my energy levels.....which you said was an issue for you. So this could help that too!
Good Luck in whatever you decide to do!
2006-10-30 02:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does that 5 spice count
2016-03-28 01:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump on him.
Its easy to get worn out from work, kids, stress, bills, life in general.
Take some vitamins and a nap if you have to, butrush the kids into bed, push him into the bedroom and tell him that you have been waiting all day for this and it will blow is mind. Lay him back, put on a cow girl hat and give it to him like a...
The hat is a must, it shows you went out of your way and your after something.
Trust me, him knowing that despite all the other things going on you still want it, HE will be instigating some more.
2006-10-30 02:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by RS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to wow him at night oral sex is always an option but you won't get much out of it, what i always try to do is try something new everytime with anything romantic or sexual every single time, even if it's a tiny adjustment or movement, same gets old. You could always shave if you haven't before..down there, he'll probably be wowed by it, even if it was ok before, different is always exciting.
2006-10-30 02:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the agressor sometimes! Try various positions, or even costumes and textures (use feathers, leather, whatever you want to try). For something fun and different, head out to the garage and use the car, or a blanket in the backyard. Be creative! Hotel rooms are great, too!
2006-10-30 02:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by But Inside I'm Screaming 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till he gets in the shower, hop in with him and either give him the best ******* ever or let him have his way with you.
that or send the kids to a sitters. and just go at it, anywhere he wants.
a ******* in the car, sex on the porch, ******* in the kitchen, turn n a tv in the bedroom or music so the kids cant hear and toss up a video camera and go at it.
there are tons of things you can do. be creatvie. You've been with him for 8 years, so you know what his weak areas are when it comes to women and sex and fantasies. :)
have fun girl!
2006-10-30 02:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy new pillow top matress, high count cotton (or satin) sheets along with real lavender in smell bags and place them around the bed. Play some classical music and lightly run you fingers through his hair until he goes into a deep sleep. Now you go to sleep yourself.
By doing the above you will both have the best sleep of your life and not have anymore stressing kids!!! WOW!
2006-10-30 02:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by GoodTimesMakingMoney 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hows abaout a night in the garden tub? Light Jazz music and friut with a bottle a wine... candles.. quiet and effective...
2006-10-30 02:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Marshall Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose 150 pounds, dye your hair orange, slip into some latex, and buy a riding crop
2006-10-30 03:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋