we do everything together as a family, he does not go out with other woman, does not drink, is asian heritiage i am hispanic. we are happy. why does he do this
2006-10-30 02:14:52 · 15 answers · asked by nadia g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps being "common law" should tell you something. How come your not the wife ??
2006-10-30 02:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If the emailing is sexual in nature, then I'd throw him to the curb. If the emails are just about every day business / life, then don't worry so much. In reality though, if there's things he needs / wants to talk about, then it should be you he is confiding in and not some other woman. I find it childish on his behalf and distasteful. Tell him that he has two choices 1) STOP emailing other women and talk to you or 2) LEAVE the home immediately. Once emotional cheating comes into your home, it won't be long before he goes out physically to meet women too once the email novelty wears off.
2006-10-30 02:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him??? Communication is the key...kills me how many people are asking complete strangers some questions on here. If you are common law and sleeping together, sharing a home, meals and possibly kids together then why not just ask him??? Could they just be friends? Is it a work colleague? If you are insecure then you need to ask only then will you be able to know what to think etc....
2006-10-30 02:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am on yahoo. Guys are always hitting on me! Every time I turn on my email, I get messages from guys. Some guys are addicted to the internet and to porn. Face it, he might be even though you two are active together. You go to the history and find out exactly what is being said, if nothing, leave it alone. If something, starve him (LOL) and tell him about it and leave it alone. Men are going to be men but they just need a little leading LOL.
2006-10-30 02:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by piepiejenkins 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he does it get your attention or maybe just for kicks.
Men can be shallow at the best of time but why dont you ask him why and tell him that it does upset you, or you could go through the histiry on the computer to find out what there talking about.
2006-10-30 02:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by La diva R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have to agree with Lilly k.
The man wont even marry you .Maybe he is just making sure he cant find someone better someone he would marry?
2006-10-30 02:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Addie B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as the emails are not sexual in nature, what's the problem? If he is just talking to someone, who happens to be a girl, I dont see the big deal. Do you not have any guys that you email?
2006-10-30 02:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Barbi 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what he is e-mailing. If it is "hey baby" I wanna f@ck you then it's bad!!
If it's general crap like how's things with you and he mentions you or if you have kids in the conversation, then I see no issues with that.
2006-10-30 02:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Paul M 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol @ commonlaw married.
you mean you are shacking up?
well as long as you are not truely married I dont see why you both cant see other people.Good luck and have fun.
2006-10-30 02:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Apparently he's not as happy as you think he is. Besides, if you're not married (common law doesn't count), he's fair game.
2006-10-30 02:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋