he comes to my house when he feel like but dont want me inhis house
2006-10-30 01:54:32 · 16 answers · asked by besexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, if he doesn't want you in his house then why do you let him in yours? Change the locks. Give him a taste of his own medicine.
2006-10-30 02:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is a little confused. A new pregnancy! Do you have any other children together? Having a baby or another one is a big step. Sometimes it does throw people for a loop if they are not ready. If he is a good man, he will come around and do the right thing for your child.
He may be missing you is why he stops by. If you do not like this then you need to explain to him your ground rules. He doesn't want you to pop in at his place cause that is his space. Place where he can think and sort things out for himself.
Maybe he just needs a little time.
Wish you luck~
2006-10-30 10:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure that he is not using u. better stop seeing him and get a divorce if ur married. if he is not allowing u in his house and is not interested in knowing of ur pregnancy, then u better beware, he might be having another wife and family, and u r secluded to the rest of the world. he might just be using u for his passion, just as some substitute.
as a wife, u have every right to stay with him in his house. but if he is not allowing u, then depending on which country u r staying in, check out the local laws. in some countries, u have the restitution of conjugal rights law, which demands that the spouse is allowed to have the lawful and legal rights of staying together and living together. so u might want to approach ur local police or local legal department.
however if u think that wont work, then better get ur divorce papers ready, for i dont think that u must continue with such a relationship, where he is not concerned about u or ur feelings and doesnt seem to care for u at all. about ur pregnancy, r u sure u want to continue bearing the child of a person who doesnt even care for u a bit.
2006-10-30 10:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost and not to step foot in your house. If he dont want you in his house then he's got to be hiding something from you. You dont need him, sounds like he's a loser. When the baby comes slap child support on him then maybe he will grow up alittle.
2006-10-30 09:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by misty byerly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your only married by paper sweety. Don't let him in your house anymore and don't go by his either. You have to move on, I know it's hard but you have too. For your sanity and your child. either of 2 things will happen. he will recognize what he lost or he won't and you will have already moved on.
Good luck.
2006-10-30 09:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a cheater........ Not too worthy of a person.... Kick him to the curb.... File for divorce and don't allow him to come over anymore....
Don't answer his phone calls, the door, etc...
Move on... You'll be happier....believe me....
2006-10-30 09:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt stay together just because your pregnant you need to tell him but if he dont want to work things out then divorce him and move one with your life raising your child
2006-10-30 09:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by samm5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue for divorce child support and alimony. What are you waiting for, a clue?
2006-10-30 09:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by kyle g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut ties w/him. He has a right to know if you're pregnant by him.
But, you shouldn't put up with crap. You don't need stress or drama while pregnant.
2006-10-30 09:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to stop letting him come to your house whenever he feels like he is using you be in control of your life tell him no
2006-10-30 09:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by jo_jo_baby2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋