Or do they experience only lust?
2006-10-30 01:52:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I loved my significant other for 14 years until I finally caught him cheating on me to a woman....Once I seen that..he tore my life apart and broke my heart.....It's going to take awhile for me to trust anyone since I was with him for 14 years...You kinda forget how to go about finding a mate after awhile, but LORD willing I know I'll find Mr. Right someday again...in the meantime I am in no hurry and enjoying my new found freedom, although he manages to find me, trying, crying and begging me to go home...I believe in this quotation "Once a cheater, Always a cheater"...but I do still Love him deep in my heart...but I know he'll continue cheating, because once you've tried female genitalia when you're gay, you'll always want some more, then you've switched to being a bisexual...It is not for me...
2006-10-30 10:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a moronic question.
Not that the questioner is a moron, but the question is oronic.
Do heterosexuals? How do we know? Especially since it's been drummed into everyone's heads how heterosexual marriages are only about procreation, that would in fact be associated with pure lust. Not love.
Yes, of course we experience love. Where anyone ever gets this crazy idea that we don't is simply ridiculous.
Not to mention the fact that gay and lesbian couples don't always engage in physical sexual activity. Whether due to illness or physical inability, but they definitely experience LOVE.
There's no more lust involved than with heterosexual couples.
2006-10-30 10:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let's reverse this question. Do heterosexuals actually experience love or do they only experience lust? Just like with ANY relationship gays AND heteros will experience both love and lust. Believe it or not we ARE actually capable of having meaningful and permanent relationships! (GASP!!!!)
2006-10-30 09:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
I have experienced love, love is a wonderful thing and it should be experienced. As far as lust, hasn't everyone experienced lust? Gay, or straight? :)
2006-10-30 13:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They experience the full range of emotions including Love as well as lust, not to mention anger at being asked such a ridiculous question. There are others who claim to be able to "know" what it is that we experience, they are adept liars but liars none-the-less.
2006-10-30 09:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, gays experience love. Lust fades, attraction fades, just like in heterosexual relationships. What remains is love and the desire to be together.
2006-10-30 10:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by dougeebear 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well since I've been in a monogamous totally committed relationship to my partner for 26 years, I would say it's love. Oh yeah, definitely. We were hand fasted in the beginning and again at our 20th and will probably do it at our 30th and so on. There is no one else I desire. And there is still lust there too!!
2006-10-30 10:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Gay people experience love, just like straight people.
2006-10-30 09:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I am fully capable of falling in love and have done so more than once. Problem seems to be that I fall for the wrong people
2006-10-30 23:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because people are gay doesnt mean htey cant experience feelings towards another person. and seriously. we all know you're a closet gay. just come out allready.
2006-10-30 14:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by emo girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋