Do you believe in destiny, the joining of a man and a woman ?

Question

I have come to find out, it is true what they say about destiny. It
will happen sooner or later. Regardless of where you are
in life. I met a woman via email. And we became great friends,
and have been for the past 8 months. We had a phone chat
for 3 hours. Which went extremely well. (She laughed half
the time). I think the world of her, my friend. I feel like, she
is "the one". Because of the connection, I had, when I first
saw her picture. There was this deep resolve within. It was
like seeing a familliar face. Like deja vu! Her eyes, her hair,
body, her voice, everything. It was like an awakening....
The ideal woman for me. Or what I as a child, dreamed of
and recognized it when I saw her, my future wife. A pastor
told me, back in 2000, I would help this woman through a
crisis. And I did, not only that. But develop a relationship
with her, and have a family. It happened, exactly how he said
it would. Should I tell this woman, the vision now, or wait?

OK. We met, in APRIL. Still friends. She
has an open mind about life. And is a
spiritual person. She wrote a list of TV
shows that she liked. And I liked half
of them, myself. Same mindset, same
points of view. We even finish each
other's sentences. The connection is there,
whether, there is somebody in the middle
of us or not. She wants to forever, be
my friend, in spite of her current relationship, that is on the rocks. I like
this woman a lot, and when I saw her
pic, you could not paint a better one.
I was so stunned, at the depth of her
beauty. And was connected to her
right there. Should I tell her the vision, now,
or wait until later ?

This is amazing. She says she is a
spiritual minded person. But I think
she won't be afraid, of what I say.
But somewhat upset, if done at this time.
She is still in a relationship. I think the
right time will come, though. Do you
believe this is fate ?

Answer 1

not really

Answer 2

Whoa, don't rush your feelings and tell her things that just might scare her. I don't believe in the whole destiny thing but if two are meant to be together it happens by the grace of god and free will from the two person involved. Yes, most of us do feel that connection when we realize we've met the one or so I imagine. Thing is, a relationship lasts because of the two people involved and not by some cosmic power. I know how you feel because I met someone that made me feel that way, turns out he was just another guy, just like all the rest and definitely not my soul mate. My point is, don't look for something thats not there, don't get all moony eyed and don't lose touch with reality because reality is what things really are. Fine you seem to have a great connection with this woman, then fine pursue a relationship with her and see where it goes, but don't expect it to last unless both of you are willing to make it work. Be realistic.

Answer 3

I find it strange that a pastor is playing psychic at all. But, if we hang on long enough to any friendship, we do help them get through difficult times. That's what friends are for. If you have feelings for this woman, by all means let her know. Practice caution either way, as the 'everything is beautiful' feeling you're getting right now, will fade. The question is can you remain best friends and more once that goes away.
Wait until she is out of the relationship, you don't want her to leave because of you. She needs to leave on her own first. It will be much healthier for both of you to start anew.
Follow your dreams but don't do it with closed eyes.
Best of luck!

Answer 4

And a pastor "tells" you things, does he. Hmmmmmm.....

If someone seems too good to be true, they generally are.

Okay, that's the cynicism out of the way. I truly believe in love, I truly believe that people can love each other. Whether it is destiny or not, who cares. Just enjoy it because NOTHING lasts for ever. Be happy and love each other.

PS just looking at your question again, you seem a bit vulnerable. Something of a dreamer. So do me a favour and don't tell her where ALL your money is, ok?

Answer 5

People naturally look for things like fate and destiny. For every case like this there are millions of cases that aren't like this, but we take note of the ones that seem like destiny because they are more interesting to us. I don't know what I believe but if I were you i'd wait until you really know her, until you have met and, hopefully, until a relationship gets going. That way you won't scare her off and if she doesn't believe it, you should have a healthy enough relationship that you'll just have a laugh at it together.

Answer 6

Hmm... i hope u didnt tell her that psychotic stuff now.. she may think ur crazy and just not say anything to you about it. Just because you have a good connection doesnt ness. mean shes the "one". I personally do NOT believe in destiny, the joining of a man and woman, but if u do more power to ya! God bless and just remember her pic may be fake!! Thats something to ALWAYS think about on the net... take care and have a gr8 day!
~Nae~

Answer 7

Deja vu is not a dream state. It is a physical state of cells in brain acting unsynchronized (similar to an epileptic short circuit.)
More info? ask.

Answer 8

I think you're in love, and that has more power than destiny. For example, If I told you that destiny has definitely called for you to choose another wife, will you listen? So it's love then that makes your destiny. Go for it, just don't be fooled. you seem to be a good guy and "good guys" are born to be tricked, and to be play things for others. It's their heritage!.so go for it, but take it slow!

Answer 9

I believe in fate, however I wouldnt share your vision with this woman it may scare her off!

Answer 10

you told a long story... i believe in instant connection with people and with instant antagonism is well. and if you can feel all that i think you will be able to decide what to tell and when

Answer 11

I don't believe in it myself. Good for you though. I would tell her about your vision now.